i'm finding myself having a tough time getting sexual. what should i do??

You're gonna need to explain a little better than that. You're having a hard time getting sexual verbally when talking to a girl, or physically when you're alone with her?

into the conversation...

I WANNA GET SEX-U-AL!!

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A Tru nigga

I don't get it. You can turn anything sexual... you're telling me honestly you can't think of a way to steer things that way? Or are you just afraid to say the things that are coming into your head? I'm willing to bet it's the latter. If you genuinely can't steer things sexually then maybe your mind isn't dirty enough, I dunno.

THAT'S WHAT SHE SAID!

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A Tru nigga

come on dude...i;m obviously speaking about sexual escalation. body languge tips, routine, etc..

LOL +1

but seriously, just start sexual. State that you are a sexual being, non verbally, this shows your confidence and there is no awkward transition from social to sexual.

You can state it verbally, i've heard about the shock and awe method, still skeptical haven't yet field tested but i'd say give it a shot.

so yeah, start sexual.

Your Eyes can let her know that your "thinking" sexual things.. women are very keen to subtle things

let's say you and her are talking face to face.. and she says something to you.. dont respond.. just look at her directly in the eyes..

she'll begin to ask you: "Y are you looking at me like that?"

from there you can respond with: "because i'm thinking about something" while giving her the 'im gonna fuck you later on' eyes... lean in to her ear and say "maybe i'll tell you later.."

then you QUICKLY change the subject (depending on the situation) by:

-either moving into another room, while she is left to think about what just happened and soon follows you.

-completely changing the topic from a sexual one into a funny one..

etc...

**this is all assuming you've already built some type of rapport with her, which is what im assuming is the case with you..

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It's Always Forward Im Moving, Never Backwards!

GREAT RESPONSE!

Man thanks sooo much for this, it is a thing that i have always had problems with.


In my particular case it is a lack of an proper example of where do i start to build. I have listen david deangelo about being sexual and stuff but difficult to grasp the correct level. I have the sexual mindset of a airhorn (either im at 0, chatting without being sexual at all, or im at 1000 by saying/thinking something overly sexual but ridiculous)