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PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 8:14 pm 
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I'm bored, and I think know why. I've been doing this for a while now and have made some gains that I'm pretty happy about. But now I feel like I'm just bored. The outcome doesn't even matter anymore. If I close a girl or not, it doesn't matter, because I honestly just don't care. I was going over a seminar by Sinn yesterday and one thing that he mentioned is to try to genuinely be interested in the girls. Is he right? Anyone else have the same problem?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 9:03 pm 
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The outcome doesn't even matter anymore. If I close a girl or not, it doesn't matter, because I honestly just don't care.
Congratulations! Your inner game has reached another level :)

This is the attitude you should have: it doesn't matter anymore, you don't let a girl determines your night. Don't overthink stuff!


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I'm bored, and I think know why. I've been doing this for a while now and have made some gains that I'm pretty happy about. But now I feel like I'm just bored. The outcome doesn't even matter anymore. If I close a girl or not, it doesn't matter, because I honestly just don't care. I was going over a seminar by Sinn yesterday and one thing that he mentioned is to try to genuinely be interested in the girls. Is he right? Anyone else have the same problem?
Mate,

what exactly is your problem? Stop time and think about it. is the problem that you get bored? Why do you get bored? What does 'getting bored' have to do with 'being genuinely interested in girls'?

When i go out, and i address a woman, i am interested in her. Genuinely, as i usually want to know she is before i want to spread her legs. In the past, i have had my psycho lessons.

If you get bored by doing PU, you feel like you have reached a limit, then quit for a while and do something that makes you happy. When PU calls again, rest assure that your motivation will be back.

As for now, please, reflect and identify your true problem.

cheers!

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I thought about taking a break actually. But after some thought I don't think I'm bored with pick up itself. I mean, it's basically just socializing with people to me, and I love doing that. I'm not going to get bored of interacting with people anytime soon.

It's just that when I sarge, I feel like I'm talking too much I guess. And it works, cuz girls are attracted and I know how to be interesting. But I don't really get to know them. It's like they're just "there" for me to spew out routines or stories about myself. And in the end, the interaction is rather one sided and uninteresting (i mean, I already know everything there is to know about me). I've been getting girls interested in me, but how do I get interested in them? I think this is my sticking point and my next move.


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2011 10:19 pm 
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I thought about taking a break actually. But after some thought I don't think I'm bored with pick up itself. I mean, it's basically just socializing with people to me, and I love doing that. I'm not going to get bored of interacting with people anytime soon.

It's just that when I sarge, I feel like I'm talking too much I guess. And it works, cuz girls are attracted and I know how to be interesting. But I don't really get to know them. It's like they're just "there" for me to spew out routines or stories about myself. And in the end, the interaction is rather one sided and uninteresting (i mean, I already know everything there is to know about me). I've been getting girls interested in me, but how do I get interested in them? I think this is my sticking point and my next move.
Well darn amigo, that is a hard question. i dont think i can answer that one, but what might help is asking if there is anything in their life that gets them very excited. Dont take shit for an answer though. You can see true passion in their eyes. Ask they why. I must say that i find women even more interesting if we share common passions/feeling. I met somebody recently that was very adventurous. I found her very interesting when i found that out. But i only found it out because i asked about it.

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