When I meet girls in clubs and bars or on the street, they always ask me personal information that I don't want to reveal such as what I do for a living, where I work, my last name, etc. I don't even like revealing this info on first dates. I don't want to reveal this information because I want to keep my professional life and whatever it is that I do outside of work separate. I don't want people at work knowing that I go to the club and turn into an animal on weekends and I don't want the random broads that I'm trying to fuck knowing where I work. She may know one of my coworkers or clients and tell them that I put her hand on my dick on the dance floor (I do this sometimes ). Not good for my professional image.

Anyway, how do you guys suggest handling this? If I refuse to answer a girl's personal questions, it looks like I'm trying to hide something. I don't want to lie either. I hate lying, I'm not good at lying, and it will probably lead to more problems anyway.

Give her a joke answer and then change the subject
e.g.
Q. What do you do for a living?
A. I'm a disposable cigarette lighter repairman.

That line's been done to death but I'm sure you see what I mean, make her laugh and then move the conversation along to something else.

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Dude I've got the funniest of answers to this actually. On my online profile on one site I put for my occupation "I'll give you 3 guesses, multiple choice".

So yesterday this girl asks me so I go...

"Ok well now that's an interesting question so let's see here, I'm a(n) ______.

A) Plumber
B) Mechanic
C) Male Stripper
D) Ass Model
E) CSI
F) Musician
G) Rare Pokemon
H) Engineer
I) Salesman

Take your first guess. "

So she goes...

"Okay well lets see....

I am going to go with

F) Musician because you seem like you have a big interest in arts and music

I) Salesman, because of your humor choice

or

G) Rare Pokemon, just because that would be awesome!"

Then I go...

"Nope, totally wrong dude, I'm a professional ass model and part time male stripper. You believe me?"



She actually bought it until I told her I was kidding, but I changed the subject on her by that point. I told her if she came out on Friday to sing at karaoke with me I'd tell her. Guess what I'm doing on Friday and guess what phone number I just got yesterday?

Oh btw I'm a programmer/graphics artist (yep, totally trick question). I hate it when chicks ask me what I do and I tell them right off the bat b/c they either think it's too nerdy or I'm some starving artist, it never works when I do, so I'm not going to do it anymore b/c it's only a shit-test these chicks pull. They gotta work for the 411. That's what you gotta do bro, make them work for the info, make games out of it. Get their curiosity going.

PS: The fact that she actually bought me being a professional ass model and male stripper lets me know this chick is going to be fun fun fun fun fun fun on Friday can't wait tee hee!

i never answers questions directly especially non-emotional serious ones. if she is asking serious questions she is more relationship material, she likes to know what you do and so forth.

my favorite answer is that im a prostitute

by the way you shouldn't be worried about being a guy that fucks mutiple woman , reputation is just superficial value - who cares. Woman are unconciously attracted to guys who fuck alot of woman- preselection etc.

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Yeah I've joked around before and been like "I'm a stripper. I'm a manwhore. etc". It's only a temporary solution. Eventually she's like "ok, what do you really do?" You can't keep joking like this forever because A) it stops being funny. B) it looks like you're trying to hide something.

Yes women are attracted to guys with preselection but if you have a very professional type of job like a doctor or dentist, you should be more discreet about your promiscuous lifestyle. If word gets around that you're a promiscuous pick up artist, sure you may get a few more female clients coming to your practice but you'll lose more clients. Many people will view you as sleazy and won't take you seriously as a professional.

If you don't want to lie, you don't want to tell and you don't want to seem as though you're hiding something, then your interactions are going to come with an expiry date.

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