So I got her number saturday. Was going to call her yesterday. Randomly encountered her in the library yesterday so I didn't call. We talked a little bit. Kinoed, managed to build a little attraction but not as much as saturday.

I kinda mentioned that I'd tag along for lunch with her friends today.

I was shit scared of getting out-AMOGed by on of her friends who I think likes her so I texted her: "Hey it's Wazzer. I won't be coming. I met someone at the cafeteria so I decided to keep her company." (true story)

So we got to class. She was writing something, sitting beside the guy I feared would out-AMOG me. Snuck up behind her and said: "What's that?"

She wasn't looking. She said: "Homework.."

I asked the guy what he was doing too. He looked at me like: "wtf is he doing?" and said "Homework.."

I didn't know what to do so I found some other friend to bother in the room...

She only looked at me once after that (she sits in the front row of class while I sit at the back.) and it wasn't a very nice look.


So yeah... I fucked up. She was a 9. I feel so fucking stupid. Anyone tell me what I should have done?

Met 2 girls today. One of which I gamed. A 7.
Got another game tomorrow on a 7.5 in another class. Still can't get over ms. 9 here. She was it. She's a rare find considering I'm in engineering.

You think I may still have a chance with 9 if and when the awkwardness dies down?

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Ex-name: stelphie, origin: a combination of 'Steph', an HB I had one-itis on at the time of registration; and 'Selphie', a videogame character I thought was hot.

Hello Wazzer.

well, yeah, you screwed up, it was not much you did, but had some great consequences

From what i can read, i would say you feared that she hooked up with the other guy. To have the fear, that is acceptable. I know that icky feeling. But it was that icky feeling that made you go up there and get your nose in her business (this is not a sexually tinted pun or something).

I dont know if those two hooked up or anything, but if they are sitting next to each other, dont intervene. Its just... lame! Control yourself. she is sitting next to him, so what? You act like she is the only beauty in the world. she isnt!! not many girls in engineering? perhaps there is a world outside of school? Another world where there are other people. I am sure you will find somebody else in there. She was it in the moment at Saturday, but only then. Realize that there are plenty more where she came from.

Another point: you talk about AMOG's, which means: Alpha male, other guy, but my friend, you are far from alpha male from what i can read. You need to be able to stay emotionally unattached from the result. This is hard, but if you want to be good at seduction, and have it under your control, you need to understand that seduction has control over you as well. And you need to be wary of that, and control it.

Another point: building attraction? With what? a hammer and some plastic? You built more plastic attraction on saterday, and a bit less hammering in the library? Alpha males dont build attraction, they are attraction.

Attractive men are real, know what they want and they have the confidence to try and get it. They dont always win, but they can accept a loss and laugh it away.

Your last question: do you still have a chance? Whatever attraction you think you built, it died when awkwardness was born. Realize that everything in the world is at constant change, so when you meet her in a total different context over an amount of time, yeah. But until that time, the awkwardness shall not die.

If you have any more questions amigo, feel free, we are always glad to help out or at least try to help out.

cheers!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

Tough but very true. Before the stupid approach yesterday, I was sweating outside thinking to myself: "I'm a tiger. I'm a freakin tiger!!" panicking and all that. I need to work more on my inner game. Really tough gaming in college. I'll try to find time to apply what I'm learning in bars. More importantly, work more on my inner game.

Thank you.

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Ex-name: stelphie, origin: a combination of 'Steph', an HB I had one-itis on at the time of registration; and 'Selphie', a videogame character I thought was hot.

The point's been made already.

EMOTIONAL DISCONNECTION is the key to seduction. If you don't care about the results, you will approach women without any hesitation.

As for the 9, well, she's gone. But, there are always more to be found. Maybe better than her.

Good luck.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Np mate. I dont mean disrespect. Just saying my opinion straight on. Indeed, inner game. Dont expect wonders while focussing on inner game, as there is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path. But continue trying out stuff, you will get success eventually which will make your confidence stronger. you will burn as well, but at least you can recall the burns you had and say: hahahaha, i cant believe i did that. And it will give you more inner strenght.

Cheers mate. If you have more questions, happy to help out!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you