hi

most of the girls i scored was by useing a bit of the 60's technique by holding eyecontact longer than her and keep the tension build up.

But i just recently realised that the reason that sometimes the conversation goes very well and sometimes it goes well to, but there is no escallation, is that some girls just don't make eyecontact en just stare next to you when talking.

Now not only girls, but men do this too and i used to do it all the time. when i began reading about pickup i tried to keep eyecontact, but this is (likes all newbies will admit i think) very hard. So with guys i just make eyecontact and break it, make eyecontact and break it... so nobody would get uncomfortable but i would still be a strong speaker.

With girls i try to keep eyecontact as long as possible (without being creepy) to built up the tension.

But with some girls its like impossible to make eyecontact. So my question is now, what do you guys do to have a girl make eyecontact with you? I mean can't just grab her and stare in her eyes.

Yo amigo.

eye contact is overrated . I wonder why you make such a big deal about the eye contact only. Yes, it does build tension, but dont overdo it. Just maintain eye contact without staring, so when she faces you again, you are still looking her in the eyes. that is what i do when it occurs. i even find myself smiling when she looks backs at me. But its not that i desperately want her to look me in the eyes.

So, explain why this is such a concern to you?

cheerios

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60 also said something about, picking the right targets. Don't invest your time in someone who doesn't seem to respond. Or calibrate and try a different approach to making her comfortable enough to maintain eyecontact.

Most of these girls are just shy, might even be slightly nervous.

Once you get to know her better she'll feel more confident. The idea is you need to help her feel more confident by taking the lead and encouraging. Don't stare man its creepy for girls, when your talking she will look at you most times if you look away, so if your telling a story look above to the left and smile then casually blink and look at her and smile. Do it smoothly and it'll come off great.

Unless her body is facing a different direction completely then its definitely on.

thank's guys. now it's not that a just stare like a freak into a girl's eyes, but with some girls who are indeed confident or maybe very open they look in your eyes by themselves and if you look back and hold that look for just a little bit longer than she and then occasionally look away also, it's immedatly on. Like there is instant tension.

With shy girls like you might call them, they don't look in your eyes themselves but they might actually like you. Maybe indeed i must be more patient and make her real comfortable first and then start like the sexual vibe.

Now it's not that eyecontact is everything, but i like it because it sets the right sexual tone immedeatly