Me and HB9l have been in a relationship for about 2 weeks. Everything was fantastic, and i had been gaming her for MONTHS prior to the relationship. our relationship was on rocks from the very beginning: I asked 3 times before she she agreed to be exclusive with me, and she is hesitant about telling people that we're dating, which were warning signs for me.


Last night, we went to a club...she got completely hammered, and ended up dancing and making out with another guy. I pulled her aside, and told her she messed up. She cried, promised it wasnt intentional, and even claimed that she thought he was me.


My AFC came out, and I forgave her, and we ended up having unbelievable sex that night.

My question is, does an AFC not care, and forgive? Or should I have punished her in some way? Are her excuses valid? Where should I go from her, to make sure this doesn't happen again?

Doesn't sound like she's mega-into you. Get some more girls interested in you, make her jealous.

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sounds like its doomed mate, dump her ass, or just freeze her out big time.

plenty of other hotties out there, beauty is common.

good luck my friend.

I think gaming her for months is your first sign or red flag really then her telling you she didn't want to get into a relation was the second. Saying that its best to walk away really. Trying to get her jealous is just playing mind games and is not exactly mature.