Ok... So um, i just moved to arizona about 2 weeks ago. I've been hanging out with my cousin(a girl) and her best friend, a hr 8, maybe 9 in my book. I liked her since the first time i saw her and she likes me too, however, she has a boyfriend. Her and her bf were fighting just yesterday about being exclusive, she brought me up and asked if they should be exclusive. I'm not exactly sure how it went but they fucked afterwards. I try to talk about sex with her as often as possible and keep her thinking about fucking me.

I've been wanting to kiss her but i'm not sure if i should since she has a bf. a week ago we got drunk and i asked if she would be my date for that night's kickback, she said no, i flirted with her all night and at the end asked if she wanted me to kiss her, she said no and i said good caus i didnt say u could - classic mystery method close. Anyways last night she brought up the fight with her bf while we were smoking weed, she didnt use my name but we both know what she was talking about. At the end of the night she mentioned that she wanted to get layed on the fourth of july. I think she was trying to give me an ioi that she does wanna fuck me. I'm gonna make it a point to try to hang out with her on that day... How should i go about closing the distance from being just friends to kissing her successfully? Should i worry about her bf even though he's never around? How can i get some alone time with her? (my cousin is always with the 2 of us when we chill which makes it hard to make a move) Any other tips? I feel like i already have her but the hardest part has yet to come...

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At the end of the day you need to ask yourself, am I a sheep or a wolf?

There is an old biblical saying that says, "give a man a fish you feed him for a day. Teach him how to catch his own fish and he can feed himself for life."

The best way we can help is teach you how to fish and all-in-all this site does a pretty good job of that.

Working through all the details and problems and issues with this chick is handing you a rotten, smelly fish that will leave you hungry the next day if not actually make you sick. She has issues and dramas and problems that will become your problems if you get hung up on her and spend all your time and energy trying to get into a relationship with her (oneitis)

Learn how to approach and interact with girls and then approach and interact with ALL of them and you will find one that doesn't have all the baggage and issues.

she's by no means the only girl i am persuing. she is however the only girl that im remotely near laying and also when i moved i forgot to pack all my condoms so i only have one for now. so in a sense i do have oneitis. i'm approaching all the girls i can SPAM. im currently talking to her and one other girl. nonetheless if you could help me catch this one fish it'll get the ball rolling so that i can teach myself how to catch fish better than i already do. some help would be appreciated as the whole situation is somewhat complicated. btw im okay with all her baggage, i just wanna fuck her, not date her. surely you must know how to handle this situation?

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fuck you guys. i dont have oneitis but i do like this girl. your saying that u wont help me caus i actually like her. this is why i joined this forum, i have no problems gaming chicks that mean nothing to me but girls that i genuinely like/want, i can never get and that's whats been making me completely miserable. i've gamed her to the point where she's practically chasing me and i just need to know what to do with a girl that has a boyfriend. me and her actually have a connection thats deeper than the skin. you're all heartless if you cant see what that means

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I agree with here2play, you are either having or developing a oneitis. If you had a abundance of hot girls in your life you wouldn't be hung up on this one like this. But I'm not here to judge, cos' I'm guilty of the same things.
For me if a girl has a BF, and she still goes with me, it means the relationship wasn't healthy for her or wasn't fulfiling. If she loves him beyond grave, there is nothing I could ever do or say to get her. And neither could the best pickup artist in the world.

What I would recommend is no more question asking like "Do you want to kiss me"? or "Do you want to be my date for tonight" or whatever. Just take lead. Be in charge. Go for the kiss and if she deflects just smile and try again a while later. Women love men who are dominant, who take what they want and not ask too many questions. (It is not to say that you should ever force yourself on her of coruse)

If there is one thing that helped me to get good with girls it was this. Being leader in almost any situation, not trying to impress her (or others) in any way shape or form, not being ashamed of the fact that I want her (and other girls as well), not being ashamed that I want sex with her and being extremely open and honest about it all.

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Gahahahahahahaha.

Hahahahahahahahahahahaha

Anyways it clearly seems like you dont need our help. Someone tries to tell you the right mindset and you disrespect him like that? Go fuck yourself.

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Bow chika wow wow

+1 will read again lol

hey mr fatty, who asked u? learn your place.

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+1. this was the sort of advice i was looking for. im not well versed in stealing girls who have boyfriends... is it bad that i care about her feelings lol? we are both sagittariuses and i get her and im tryin hard to get in her pants. she "likes me as a friend" but its apparent that there is sexual tension and its mutual so im hoping i can take advantage of that. her and her bf have been dating for 7 months but she isnt that satisfied with him. and i can fuck her like no one else lol... i've found its really easy to be unashamed and open with my feelings when i dont care for a girl very much. like if i just want in her pants and she's not a 9/10 i have no problem gaming the fuck outa them. i just get uncomfortable in situations with girls that i actually like. anywho maybe i am started to feel for her, not to say that is a bad thing, this is a pua site, i havent seen anything anywhere that forbids oneitis or w/e

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Hahaha wow.

Should i be pissed off? Its funny how scrawny teenage boys who cant even properly get a hint from a chick to stop stalking her would act so tough online. Do you get beat up regularly that you just try to establish your dominance in forums with obscenities and name calling to make up for all the nights you cry yourself to sleep?

And yes leave her alone, she obviously has had enough of you. Stop torturing her with your desperate acts to justify yourself being with her. Its even more pathetic how you dont even have the humility to admit what a loser you are.

And yes you have put me in my place mr. "playa whos asking help online but not really its just that this girl who has a bf is just totally unique even the truth is im just desperate to screw anything."

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Bow chika wow wow

you should try a little harder to push the evelope with day game number closing, go out approach girls that are just as good looking if not better looking then this girl, spend about 1 week going out every day getting as many numbers as you can, just ask a girl if she can tell you were x place is, then after just say i didn't really want to know where x place was, I just thought you were cute, im puaX whats your name, then find out her logistics drop a time contraint and request phone #, if you actually have good conversation skills maybe do something more creative but i like to keep it short and close asap and move on, it is more efficient, next mass txt all the numbers you got that day, check out some of the txt openers in the routines section pick one you like that is congruent to you or make your own (even better) try to have some txt convos and establish phone report, next try to set up a meet with one of these girls at your house to hang out, (this is where the majority of girls get flaky this is why alot of numbers is important) when girl comes over throw movie on or something to keep them occupied kino while they are distracted continue escalating, when you think time is right go for makeout, be persistant and expect at least some resistance, i would say two trys on kiss close and don't ask just request compliance and if she does go for kiss, e.g.(hey look at me for a second, she complies kiss) while making out when your hard pull dick out and put it in her hand or simply put her hand on it, also rub her vag, gl sir, follow these steps and you will get over your oneitis that is developing and also you probably will not be able to seduce this girl by the sounds of it and chances are if you do you will not be as happy/fufilled as you thought, once a cheater always a cheater

you get mad quite easily dont you dude? take a joke faggot and again... grow the hell up, learn your place and gtfo outa my thread.

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the fact that she brought me up to her bf means that i do have a chance imo, quite frankly i really dont care if she fucks other guys caus i just wanna fuck her. thanks for all the advice dude. i'm new to this town and im starting over so that makes things alot easier for me confidence wise. as soon as my 2nd degree burns on my feet heal up ima be out there taking your advice, thanks again brosef

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At the end of the day you need to ask yourself, am I a sheep or a wolf?