So ive been opening for some time now ...
Finelly closed a number at a bus with hb8.3 alone , she invited me to open with few iois .
No kino and no touch ( it was in a bus full with ppl) no dhv , we talked for about 10 minutes ...
I needed more time to ask for her number ... so i asked her facebook .. told her i would like to go out with her to somewhere.
I called her phone ( she smsed me her fb ) , asked her out for a date this week ... she kind of hesitated and than told me she work all week but free on friday ... i told here okay so , we will meet on friday and go to a coffe shop in the after none and she told me she dont know what hour she can come so i told here , i'will call you the same day to ask for when to meet and she agreed .
Than i called her on the day and she didnt speak , and when she heard it was me she hanged up .

what did i do wrong
more Dhv
if you plan a date make the hour and day clear on the spot so less chance you will get stood up
Kino

more ?

im not to fond of calling it a "date".. did you express to her that your intentions was to get a date?

"date" has a certain expectations attached to it and maybe she didnt know you well enough to deal with those expectations..

i would've found out stuff about her during the approach and SUGGESTED we do something that she liked.. maybe you found out she liked art, you could've suggested that there was an art museum that you've been dying to check out.. she should TAG along.. (doing this with the frame of, "im gonna go do this regardless, but since you like it you should come along)..

there is less stigma of a date.. plus if it's something she likes she'll be less likely to flake on you

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First, you should have kino on the bus since it would've been easier with a lot of people. Second, when trying to set up a date, dhv by showing that you have other options and you should be fitting her into your schedule! I would wait a few days and then message or call her pretending that Friday didn't happen.

More DHV and kino. 10 minutes is enuf time to get laid. 2 steps forward, 1 step backwards is the key to attraction.

Kino is especially necessary because you needed to establish rapport. She probably branded you a creeper. Are you sure you gave an air of dainty aloofness too? If you seemed to needy or somewhat desperate, that might be your tell.

And finally, flaking is an immutable aspect of relations with the female sex. You will get flaked on till the day you die. And if God ends up being a female, you might get flaked on even after you die.

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You were too needy! See the following:
- you agreed on the day she proposed;
- you let her choose the time;
- you called her for the time;

You showed lots of DLV;
- to the girl, it seems like you are available everyday! Like you have nothing else to do, and no other options (girls);
- she was hesitating the whole time (busy at work, time unsure, calls), you should have shown boundaries. But you accepted her hesitating behaviour;
- you let her determine time/place/date -> WRONG; you should lead!

For the next time, remember this:
- She should be the lucky one for having a coffee date with you! [change mindset]
- You propose time & place. Take it or leave it! If she is in to you, she will make time for the date. You lead [DHV]; otherwise she is just wasting your precious time