Should it be a problem that I still live with my family? The reason I still live with my parents is because I decided to attend the university in my hometown and with the kind economy right now I can’t afford to rent my own place.

My point is that the ideas of me still living with my family and having only a little money is bothering me. Sometime when I’m about to approach a girl, the problem I have stop me from getting a number, embarrass of what she might think.


So should I worry? Would it affect my progress? What could I possibly do different?

Girls need guys who can take care of them selves. Living with your parents because you don't have the money to rent a place of your own, only tells you to start some parttime work and BE able to do so.

And for the problem itself, you could always make the decision for the both of you by just saying: "Your place?" when the time is just right. This would not really affect your progress unless you are a lot further with the girl and want to take the 'relationship' a step further. It actually does limit the options for meeting eachother and could create some strange faces.

I live with my parents too. The difference is that I ACTUALLY have logistical issues. I have a dog that barks whenever strangers enter the house, I have very paper-thin walls and my sisters room is right next to mine.

Therefore, the best choice is to either pull at her place or somewhere outside/private.

And I don't believe that because you live with your parents, that stops you from approaching girls and closing. Do you really believe this? Once you accept certain things, you can start evolving much quicker. Don't let a stupid excuse like ^that one prevent you from approaching, regardless of it being true or not.

Yea I couldn't agree more, I think I should really make it a goal to get a place of mine own, regardless.


Kind of think of it, it's a state of mind issue.

Thanks guys. Appreciate it.