Dear PUA bros, I could really use some help right now.

Couple of weeks ago I meet this gorgeous HB9 at a club, end up doing pretty well and number closing. We've texted & met up before, and I think I've done my best; conversation is always good, we're always teasing and joking about doing bad stuff to each other etc.

Anyway, long story short - she invited myself and a couple of buds to a houseparty she was having, and things went well to begin with. However, after a while things really went downhill and I have no idea why. She kept avoiding me, wouldn't really talk no matter what I tried with her.

The end result is an all-round dissappointment. Not good.

Not exactly sure where to go now and I can't really post up anything for you guys to analyse or critique because I didn't really get the chance to do anything... Not helped by the fact that she goes on holiday for a week tomorrow.

In your expert opinions, what should I do? Should I text her, wait for her to text me; what should I say to her, should I confront her etc? If I do go the confronting route, I'd rather do it in person rather than through text, which means waiting over a week - a length of time that will no doubt leave any bad feelings to simmer...

I know a friend of hers who is aware of my interest, would it be of any use trying to get her on board?

Urgent help really appreciated, I'm in a bit of a heap right now.

Personally I wouldn't get her friend involved in this.

During this houseparty, did you try the Cat-string technique? Hopefully you weren't trying to push things to hard because you'll lower your value. Try opening new sets, interest new people and increase your social value.

Finally don't confront her with anything, as you will read in many posts here she has to come to you. You're letting her into your interesting world and if she doesn't want to join you, she's missing out on your interesting and fun personality.

I know this isn't much but I hope it helps in a way.

Good luck!

Thanks for your advice, mate - that was the route I'd resolved to take anyway. All the others just render me of low value and a tad on a creepy side, I think.

She talked to me on Facebook just there now and I continued to game her; my thinking is, "why the hell not?", I have nothing to lose anyway.

I think I just managed to pull it back from the brink and she said she'd text me tomorrow, so I'm safe for now.

On the topic of cat-string technique, I didn't use this as much as I could have - I was going for a more direct approach with plenty of kino. Do you think perhaps this could have been my problem? Now that I think about it, that seems perfectly suitable in a one-to-one environment but perhaps it was a little too strong for a houseparty setting.

Next time, I'll definately try and apply my technique to the situation at hand. God, I love this forum!