So, here's a story from a newbie from the Netherlands, hiya there. I've been into the whole game thing for a few months now even though I only just decided to sign up here, and I must say, it turned my life around. I was on average before, which I think classified me as an AFC, but since reading Neil Straus's book, it changed drastically (I'm not saying this makes me a PUA, but certrainly not AFC anymore). Since breaking up with my gf 2 months ago I've been out in the field kiss closing at least one different girl a week and taking a few home (a little bragging won't hurt, will it?), not always HB8s or higher but it boosted my confidence anyway so I guess they're all worth the effort. But, enough about that, my situation, and basically my reason for registering here now (besides curiosity).

A month ago, a new roommate (or housemate, whatever you want to call it) moved into the house I live in, or at least she signed the contract because she's not moving in till september. Fact is, she's really hot. And I don't know if it's a dutch rule, but the golden rule among students here is to never fool around with a housemate, because it's trouble, I guess you'd understand. Anyway, this new girl and another roomate/friend and I hit the town the other night and even though I hadn't planned on doing it, we kissed anyway after I had had to (try to) ignore IOIs the whole night. My friend/roommate was really pissed (jealosy? angry at me for breaking this golden rule?) I decided not to go to bed with her then (I should've, I know), but I started to develop a little crush on her afterwards. Just now we texted and she mentioned that she really regrets the fact that we kissed and almost did it, etc etc, never wants to do that again. I went completely back into my old habits, ignoring all the phone game stuff, saying I didn't mind kissing her and that I regret her decision for not wanting anything sexual with me anymore. Not literally of course, but I think she got that message lol. So now that you all know my life story, what should I do next?

Honestly guys, I don't mean to be rude but what do I have to do to get a reply around here? Wrong topic in wrong section? Post too cocky? Any reply would help, I'm relying on some kind of advice because I don't know what to do to get her to like me again! Oh well, like me.. I just want to make her mine I guess.

Don't hook up with your roommate, it's a horrible idea. There are good reasons people tell you not to do it.

Leave the house, your dating pool is limited to any girl that doesn't live with you.

Not sure about this advice. He's a student.

Julius I can imagine the situation you're in. I've had the same problem with my housemate but didn't develop a crush on her. Just let it be. Stop texting and continue your life, and stay good housemates if possible.

I think you may have misunderstood me, I'm saying walk outside and meet women, not move out of his house. A student should have no issues finding girls that don't live with him.

Hahaha sorry misunderstanding. Then yes, follow up on ProfessorX's advice.

Move on, yeah. FInd someone else. If you make things any more uncomfortable, more problems could arise than a little awkwardness, like, LOTS of awkwardness, until one of you moves out.

I've done the whole fucking the housemate thing twice. The first time it was great at first, but then I got bored with fucking her, she got pissed off and drove me out of the house.

The second time was fine, we fucked for a few months, stopped, and just continued on as normal. She met other guys and I met other girls and everything was cool. When I eventually moved out she said I was welcome to come back whenever I wanted.

So yea fucking the housemate is risky, but it doesn't ALWAYS end badly.

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Thanks for the advice, really appreciate it. I've done some thinking since then and I think that'd be the best, the fact that she doesn't want this anymore should be an obvious sign that it won't work out. I'm not completely giving up though, people change their minds sometimes. Thanks again!

Edit: Admins, you can take this topic out if you want.