So I used to really liked this girl that I went to a religious college with. We clicked during that time but one rule of the college was first year students couldnt date. Everyone expected us to date after, but I was a pussy and didnt make a move. Well a year later we hang out go drinking and dancing. We bumped and grinded and then went out on the patio and she sat on my lap and shit, but again back then I was a pussy so I didnt make a move. We did grope each other and shit but didnt kiss. That was about 2 years ago.

I hung out with this chick here and there up until recently we hung out almost every weekend. If there was such an AFC it was me. I know the methods on this site work because guys would use them on me and her so they can get her number right in front of me! After 1-2 months of this I just kinda made new friends and would text her here and there but more to make it seem like I got more going on than she does (all our friends moved away so she has been kind of a homebody, lives with parents too.)

Well anyways reading The Game made me realize I was already doing what I should do if I want to try to get a second chance. I've ignored her for about 2 months, made new friends (a lot of cute girls in that bunch), and she see's how much I've been livin it up on twitter and fb. Obviously shes willing to go out with me, how can I not fuck up closing this??

Im also 5'9 and overweight so any advice for the bigger brotha's would be appreciated as well

Looks actually don't matter as much as grooming does. I mean, would you rather go on a date that bathes regularly, or bathes regularly but also throws on some perfume, does her hair, and puts on a nice dress for a date. If you demonstrate that you take some pride in your style it does wonders. So take a little bit of time to get ready.

Remember that you managed to have a lot of fun when you two lost touch, so don't lose that. Life is good without her as well, so when you talk to her don't fall under the belief that she's too good for you. You kick ass (I'm assuming).

If you wanna go on a date with this girl, ask her out on a date. Use the word "date." I know a lot of guys disagree, but if she's known you for a while I'm all about being honest and making sure she doesn't misinterpret anything you're doing as mere friendship.