Dear all,

I need some advice regarding a classic LJBF. On of the girls I was seeing just LJBFded me via email. I took out the most important part of the email:

But i have been thinking and I don't feel like continuing seeing each other the way we were. Im sorry!
Hope we can be friends!

"continuing seeing each the way we are" I think this refers to me being completely cool with her seeing other people; as I expected her to be too.

Out of the three girls I see on a regular basis she was the one I would have possibly considered as LTR material. I presumed she was not sleeping with anyone else (as she stated so once) not that it matters. The reason I did not fully emotionally commit to her was that twice she stated that she wanted to marry a guy she was casually involved with four years ago (we're both 20 btw). She has never been in a real relationship but apparently this guy broke up with her and she felt 'he should have picked her'. I just ignored this shit; and even considered that it could possibly be a jealousy plotline (what do you think?). Anyway I did not take any risks and only contacted her once a week to stop myself from getting too involved. This didn't really work since I felt myself slowly developing feelings for her (no one-itus bullshit), just "I actually genuinely like this girl" type feelings.

Q1) For my past LJBF scenarios I said something like "I already have enough friends, take care". This time I would like this girl in my life, in some way. I was going to go respond with something like: "Hey, that's cool. See you around X" What do you think?

Q2) Secondly do you think, judging from her story, that she is damaged goods?

Q3) This is the most important question! Do you think she LJBF'ded me due to a lack of exclusivity? I would like to know how to keep her in my life sexually and at what cost. If exclusivity is the only option I think I'll have to pass. Has anyone had any positive experience with a situation like this?

Thank you to anyone replying to this post. It's a very long message and I sincerely thank you for taking the time to read/reply.

Sounds like what you need to do is figure out if she's cutting things because she doesn't want to get hurt, and is starting to like you too much but doesn't want to share you.

If so, then you can talk about being exclusive with one another, if that's something you really want.

If it's any other reason (she's starting to see someone else, is bored of you, etc.) then you can choose whether to stay friends or go your separate ways.

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