showgirl i was talking to months ago... was showing signs she was into me, texting everyday including many sexual enuendos, few hangouts but only kissing at that point

pussy was coming easy at the time. i got over condfient one night and went straight for her cl*t after beating around the bush with my hand for 20 minutes without any kissing or proper escalation. got LMR'd....we still ended up kissing at the end of the night when she left.

over the next few weeks she started to back off show much less attention, whether she found out i was fucking other girls, or i was friendzoned im not sure.

so i did a really funny/romantic inside joke thing for her birthday and she loved it...she wanted to see me againt but i heard through the grapes that she was fucking some other dude.

so i went cold on her for months, ignored 4 texts, ignored her birthday hearts she left on my facebook wall. and two weeks ago i saw her out, and didnt acknowledge her what so over... i could tell it bothered her.

so today she posts on my facebook wall, "i was thinking about you, hows the house?? miss you"

i know not to acknowledge that i miss her back
but wtf do i say to not still come off like a complete asshole as ive been??
do i just be blunt and say something like "its coming nicely, come over one day"

or something more like "if your lucky ill invite you over one day"

or do i just be an asshole and continue ignoring her?

If your screwing other girls, why would you go cold on her if she is sleeping with other guys?

I hung out with girls that were screwing other guys, but I still slept with them. Stop it with the double standard. Women love to have sex also. Be non reactive. Stop pushing Boyfriend/Girlfriend relationship on to girls when they just want freinds with benefits.

Keep talking to her.

i wasnt pushing anything relationshipwise on her, i got a little bit of oneitis for this girl...i just went cold cause she was giving another dude more attention (sex) that she wasnt giving me.

shes already made enough attempts to reconnect but in the back of my mind i think she just wants me to stroke her ego so i dont want to say too much

Dear jazzpure,

I am just writing to request you, if it is helping to assume the girl strokes only her ego. Just a note to say this mindset is diffucult due to your Inner Game. I am not able to say if this is true or not. Maybe this statement is in every flirt a little right. But who cares? I know neither you nor this girl. I further do not know your relationship.

Why do you have scepticism that the girl could like you for who you are?
I look forward to hearing from you the reason, why you are the man, who women love.

Best wishes

Did84

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