I realize a part of why I'm so uninteresting is that I never talk about anything interesting. What should I talk about cause at the moment all I ever do is try not to talk about sex cause all I ever want to do is talk about sex. Talking about my interests is boring cause it's mostly art and video games. The only thing left to try would be to come out and just ask their interests and try to talk about that but I'll probably just be boring.

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Life sucks when ya get no buns

girls like to talk about themselves

you should listen, and get them to talk some more...

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Makes sense but I don't want to interrogate them. Should I just ask anything about them cause I don't know man I'm often inclined to ask boring things and say boring things in response.

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Life sucks when ya get no buns

If you wanna talk about sex, then talk about sex.

All the time? My mind can be really one tracked as a matter of fact it is. I used to always talk dirty back when I was younger but I felt like I was being too one tracked and wanted to be less like that cause it would scare away girls. As a matter of fact I just had an epiphany. When I was younger I got more buns and I always was sexual but now that I try not to always be sexual I don't get no buns? I don't wanna turn a girl off talking dirty all the time though cause I feel every dude trys that.

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No interviews.
Just keep a happy/fun vibe.
It's okay to compliment them.
It's okay to tease them (playfully).
It's okay to talk about them.
It's okay to talk about sex.
It's okay to touch them.

Just do anything.

it's funny.

i've had some women recall "super deep and amazing conversations" that we had.

and i will specifically remember, it was a time that i didn't feel like talking and just said things like:

"Wow, really?"

"No way!"

"Tell me more!!!"

i will have literally said NOTHING and they will remember an "AMAZING" conversation.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

try finding a girl that likes art and videogames? or even if not, if YOURE really interested in a topic, they WILL BE interested in it to. if art is your passion, talk about it with enthusiasm. they will love it

You wanna know something that can actually help you? This topic reminds me so much of my cousin. He's a really social guy but I notice alot of what he does in conversations is contribute a bunch of these random interesting facts about whatever they'd happen to be talking about and that just made him sound all the smarter. Maybe it is just him idk, but I have noticed by actually using the internet to learn new shit and be more interesting goes along way.

Learn things about cars. Or just yours. Start following a sport, or hell even play. You dont need to necessarily DO all of things you talk about or have mastered anything about it. Show interest in alot of thing and broaden your horizons a bit more. You know if a girl likes you, by showing alot of interests like this it puts alot of pressure on her. She wants you to think the best of her so she'll be naturally trying to keep up with you and like her. But dont be too talkative....noone likes that man.

Problem: Not interesting.

Solution: Become interesting.

Profit.

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If you want to seem interesting, seem interested.

You know what girls like to talk about the most? Let me rephrase that, you know what is everybodys favorite subject? Themselves. That's right. We're all narcissists. Talk to these women about themselves with some flirting, teasing, negs, etc. in the process.

Another good tip is to avoid talking about you. Unless it's something that demonstrates higher value. Avoiding talking about yourself leaves more room for her imagination about you, and what kind of person you may be.

You got low self esteem.

You try to get some fancy line but youll still feel like its boring.

I suggest you read some books to improve your confidence and read the book "power of now."

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It's good. Just read it and follow. Practice talking with strangers, not just girls... Then move to girls.

You're welcome.

EXACTLY.

Especially if you open DIRECTLY, but even so, within a few minutes it's totally ok to bring up sexual topics. If you're comfortable talking about it, she will likely be too.

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So DnM's? and btw you use Gunwitch/60yoc yeah?

you can talk about everything .. you need to make it fun
i always do it cocky funny... just ask her questions ... not like boring what do you do and where do you live.

''so do you only go out get drunk and wasted landing in bed with cool guys ..well probably like me , or do you have anything interesting going in your life.''

so do you live in a cardbox or ?

same questions different context ...

it's funny.

i've had some women recall "super deep and amazing conversations" that we had.
lol all woman do like to talk about themselfs ... most guys do game too much they talk and talk and talk lol... you need to ask and responds to her questions like other woman do.

1. get your inner game together
2. get over the negative self dialogue - accept but don't act on it
3. relax .. cocky funny have fun...

i go in natural always ... sometimes i use a canned opener but 95 % of the time i go in all natural ... i only switch to canned when guys are trying to amog me or the girl is very touchy ..
if the woman is attracted and going ballistic i just cut the chase and close , all approaches i did in my life could be K-closed after 5 or 30 minutes but i kept talking to woman for a hour to several hours.

look you don't always have to talk ... if she's attracted just close ... simple... in day game you shouldn't do this too direct ... nightgame you can do it directly.

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