I always wanted to ask a real pick up artist/s these two question:

If the word friends gets mentioned in any context how do you respond. Of course, they will often use it, at the beginning often. I see it as if she's challenging you.

Second, I've heard suggestions as: "Tell her that you are only friends" "Only will be friends with her" "Wanna hang out as only friends sometimes"
She will 9 times out of 10 say :of course. So.... is that a good tactic or not if you're not experienced enough to go bluntly and straight to the point.
Reverse psychology? ... Anyone tried it?

I ALWAYS use this. It was one of those things I started out with by experimenting from the days I used the Mystery Method.

That one little word showed me great results every time.

So why stop using it? I continued using it and it works like a charm every time.

I love the look on the girls' faces when I tell them we're just friends and nothing can happen between us. I can literally SEE their brains melt and come out of their ears.

I tell them this after showing sexual interest of course. I don't think it would have the same effect otherwise.

It confuses them like hell

It can help to let her lower her protection shield. Then she can hang out with you, without worrying about giving the wrong signals.

But I think the "friend' word should only be used in the beginning phase. Not too long, otherwise she is so used to see you as a friend.

Awesome!
I started thinking that the friend zone starts as soon as she even thinks of that word.
What about the friend zone? Ways to go in between, swirl out of it even if you touch it... i hear people say as soon as you fail first time, even though it's not the end with that one, if she does start labeling you, or even thinks of starting to label you as friend, you can cross her and just say... NEXT!

Also, my OP was about her mentioning that word, either in dead seriousness or in kind of a testy way, as well!

Thank you!

just remember it can back fire... she will throw it back at you. Just make sure you know how to handel it when she does.

Anything you say to a women they say it right back to you.

& what about when she brings it first??

Response to that?

Either she's testing you or.... You're too late

cool,
ok when she's testing: my reaction should be one of...?

and an example of being too late... in which connotation, context would she say it?

Very thankful for replies =)

If she's using the word 'friend' VERY early on - she's testing you. Reaction? You play along. Don't react to it in any negative way. Play along and call her a friend as well.

But AS you are calling her a friend - sexually escalate and flirt with her. Your body says "I WANT YOU", but your words are saying "Let's just be friends".

If she's using the word 'friend' LATE in the interaction (say you've known her for a couple of weeks and she introduces you to people as her 'friend') - then you're fucked.

That means that:

a) You have not shown any sexual interest with her.
b) She's not interested.

In which case you need to either START to sexually escalate - or just move on. If you're in the friendzone, I suggest you stay away from her a couple of weeks. Break contact for just a while. NOT in an unfriendly kind of way. Just in the I've-been-busy-lately kind of way.

And then re-initiate contact a few weeks later, but this time with a magic formula called flirting and sexual escalation.

Boom.

this is why i love this forum, learn something new every day

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Gotya!

This particular question was general.

Thanks, guys helped me to confirm what I thought xd