| Hi fellows,
i'm kind new to this PUA world. I've just read The Game and watched The Pickup Artist first season. I'm just starting to study PUA and i'm facing a curious situation.
I'm 23 yr old and i've ended my 6-year relationship 2 weeks ago.
I have a HB4 friend who invited me to join her and her 2 HB friends on a club last weekend. I went there without the goal to pickup anyone, just to have fun, because my ended relationship was too recent.
So i've met her two friends, HB7 and HB10. Let's forget the HB10 because she's married and stuff. The thing is: my conversation went well with HB7, specially because i wasnt afraid of approximation because of my lack of goals. So we just had some fun.
After that, HB7 asked me to add me on Facebook (IOI). HB4 got upset because she was interested in me. (this is real. u know that this happens a lot when you don't want to chase the girl). After that i tried to demonstrate some DHV's to HB7 on facebook, and then i got her phone number.
This week HB4 invited me to go to a club with them again, but told me that i was being very immature and childish with HB7 and they were laughing at some of my (attempts of?) DHV. So it may be that i didn't deliver it correctly or HB4 is trying to lower my value in front of the other girls because she's mad. I guess both.
I don't remember which DHV's i've used, but simple things, all from Mystery's simplest teachings.
I don't know whether i should go and feel like a reason for them to laugh, a low value AFC, or if i should go and at least kino escalate HB7. (it'll be a latin dance club, i'm used to latin dance, perfect). HB7 sent me a message now telling that she likes my personality and she's just worried with me because of my recent break-up (it's clear that HB4 told her). She said that they really laughed a little bit because i seem to be needy but i'm cute. (i think there is one IOD and one IOI, i'm not sure)
I told HB7 that i had the impression that HB4 was interested in me, and then HB7 asked if i was interested in HB4 as well. (since they're close friends, this confirms to me the interests of HB4). I told that i was not interested in HB4 at all, but with her (HB7) things could be different.
She answered: "now you've put me in a troubled situation. We talk again tomorrow".
Tomorrow is the club day.
What should i do?
First option: forget about these girls, since i already have low value in front of them.
Second option: HB7 is in to me, apart from HB4 trying to spoil my game. So i should go on.
Thank you, men!
I'll use your advices and soon i'll tell you the results!
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