ok my problem is there are so many girls that are older than me (i just turned 19, and the girls i am talking about are usually 20-21) that i am really attracted to, but age always seems to matter to them. how do i suggest that age doesn't matter, either directly or indirectly?

example: i once was at a 21st birthday party (i was still 18 at the time) when i was getting beer out of the keg that was on the balcony. i come back in, and this girl kinda puts her hand on my chest and pushes me back out saying something like show me where the beer is i need help getting some. i was just like ya sure, and we went back on the balcony where she got her own beer ( i took that as a sign that she just wanted to talk to me alone and was interested in me). we talked for a bit, and i alluded that i was a sophomore, which she was, but she was 20. ( i was actually a freshman). then her friend came out and we were talking about birthdays and i accidently said i was turning 19 soon. that's when she said 'oh my you're just a baby what am i doing out here' that's when i knew i lost it.

my question is what would you guys have done? would you have just lied about your age?(i feel bad about lying, and plus feel like she'd end up finding out later so better be forward) would you have had a line or method in making sure she knew that age didn't matter? its so frustrating

Well I'm no expert but I target older chicks (I'm 28 ) a fair bit and use the exact same game I use on younger girls and it works just as good.

If they seem to think I'm too young for them I normally give 'em a neg or something, I just usually try and brush it off as cool and calm as possible, and move on to the next subject.

If you really game her properly I don't think age matters that much.

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When it comes to age, women essentially react to your behaviour rather than your actual age. Within reason of course.

Essentially the best thing you can do is try to avoid playing games with her and do your best to 'keep it real'. The more you try to manipulate her or use routines/gambits especially when they aren't congruent with your personality, the more she's going to see you as an immature young guy.

The other thing about women is they may point out your age as an issue, but how you respond to that is HUGE. If you care about your being younger, then she will care too. If you don't seem to care, then it won't seem like such a big deal to her. When I get an older woman telling me "oh you're so young", I'll reframe it and be cheeky in my response "Oh yeah that's true, you wouldn't be able to keep up with me".

She should laugh at that and try to convince you she COULD keep up. Now you have her trying to prove herself to you. Which is far better than you trying to convince her you are mature enough.