Uncertain about her interest in me.



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PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 1:17 pm 
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Hi guys

I have met this girl, an 8-9, that I would like to spend some more time with.
The problem is that she is so slow in responding to my texts, that I don't really know how I should interpret her reactions to me.

I met her about two months ago, she came home with me the first night we met. She spent the night and we fooled around (kept her nickers on). we didn't speak untill the next weekend when we met out again, and the same thing happened, only at her place.
So I started texting her, and she would reply about a day later. She would be positive, interesting etc. I would wait for a while before I answered, and she would text back a day or two later. I got insecure and impatient with her, and finally I thought "fuck it", and didn't text her anymore.

But then I met her again this weekend. We talked for a while at a club, and she suggested that we go to my place. She spent the night (full close). I sent her a message on sunday (we had discussed that I should make her wafles for breakfast, but we stayed in bed until it was to late, and she had to leave for an appointment). I wrote that she missed out on a great breakfast. Two days later she writes back that she feels "cheated", and expects a minimum of 5 wafles next time we meet.

I like this girl, but the way she delays her replies makes my uncertain.

So the question(s) is:
Do you think she is interested in me?
Is it worthwhile trying to get her to meet me on a proper date?
How should I go about to get her interested in a second date?

any thoughts would be helpful!
Thanks

HH


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2011 9:36 am 
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I think she is just trying to be friends with benefits.


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PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2011 11:44 am 
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Of course she's interested, she's just playing hard to get. Chill out and have fun with her! Don't be to available or always texing her too often, wait as long to get back to her as she gets back to you, and leave it a few days in between texting. You're doing fine!

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2011 11:55 am 
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What you need is hardcore asshole game. Next time she texts you, wait 6-12 months before responding.

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PostPosted: Fri Jun 24, 2011 7:01 am 
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Thanks guys!

I hadn't concidered that she might just want to be fuck buddies. It doesn't quite fit my impression of her, but I might be wrong. I guess I'll find out if I play it a bit cool for å while. I'm not sure if I have the patience to wait 6 months though..

I'll slow down on the messages, haven't texted her in four days now, so maybe I'll try a new one to day.

I'll let you know how it works out!

Thanks again!

HH


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 28, 2011 5:15 pm 
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I texted the girl again, and she answered 5-6 hours later (a new record for her). I continued using the joke we had been playing around with, and she picked up on it, and ended her text asking if I was going to a club that same day.
I was out of town for a wedding, and couldn´t meet her. I told her this in the following text, and she has not replied since. This is four days ago.
I wonder if she has a very fragile self image, and being "turned down" is hard on her. Not sure though, and I´m wondering if I should text her again, or if that would put me in the needy category...


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