This girl is pretty hot, tall, DD's, and nice ass. Definitely a dime.

Ok so here's the situation:
So I met this girl through mutual friends but we didn't really talk to each other. we see each other again at an event and she's clearly flirting with me. She just graduated from high school and I'm a year older, so she invites me to her grad party and her boyfriend's grad party. Also, all she keeps talking about is how her and her bf are breaking up before college starts and how she wants a guy who is smart (I go to a good school so it felt like she was hinting at something, but I can't say for sure) anyway I go to both grad parties and the whole time she's flirting with me, saving me a seat to sit next to her, or coming over to sit next to me and kind of ignoring her bf. Anyway, she told me how amazing of a guy I am and how she doesn't want me to date this other girl because she is below my standards ( lol idk she's weird) but then she keep on saying that we're gonna be "great friends" and how she wants to find me a gf because she thinks i can get really hot girls...lol...

anyway half of me wants to bang this girl so bad, and half of me wants to date her, but she just is giving me mixed signals. also, while she shamelessly flirts with me, even in front of her bf, she also kind of flirts a little with a couple of my friends so it's not only me..

Sounds like she likes the attention.

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To me it sounds like you are being toyed around. She is using you to do a bf job (Going to boring places where she needs company) and tells you where to sit and act. The only thing is that, you don't get to tap that like the bf....

Imo just start acting more cocky or forget about this girl, she also seems like a cockblocker

totally see that. thanks for the advice

i feel like i attract girls like these a lot. how do i cross from them liking my attention to them wanting me sexually?

The answer is, was, and always will be yes.

To reiterate:
If you ever find yourself asking the question "am I in the friend zone?"
The answer is fucking YES!

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Funny story. But I've seen it happen before lmao. We all been there. But there is a way to manipulate that situation to your advantage. Basically, do what ewe are told to do when that shit happens. Move on with our lives and ignore or keep ourselves busy with the job, studies and other women. Clearly, she's using you a as a toy to squeeze you along. As funny as that sounds, it's damn true. So, what you should do is make new friends immedietly, especially other girls. Don't be afraid to flirt back with them. And if that same chicks keeps trying to string you alone, shrug it off. Don't be a jerk asshole, but instead be humble and sincere.

"Look, I am busy at the moment. But maybe another time..."

Don't just say it, DO IT. Make appointments with other people. Date other chcks and chances are, she will see you as a different person and go back. That will open up a new venue of gaming which I won't get into at the moment. Just be carful around this girl. Even if you are a bit attached, she can use that to rope you along like an idiot.

Be more flirty, but less needy. Don't overdo it. For example, use the cat theory. Cats like it when someone waves a string around. When out of reach, they jump, flip and dance for you. But if you leave the string on the ground for a few seconds, the cat wil get bored and walk away. Same thing goes for women(Funny how cats and women match )

String HER along. I will give you another example on what pushes them over the edge. Kissing. When the moment is good, everything is soothing and perfect, you lean in for the kiss. But instead of kissing her in the mouth, kissher cheek and pull back. This will make them go crazy. They will begin wanting more from you.

But in this case, you gotta have already attracted her. So in your case with this girl with the BF, you shouldn't be even gaming her yet. First catch her attention by ignoring her. And when you know you have caught her attention, you slowly maniplate and game your way into the bed..

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update: ok so a group of my friends and this girl went and got drunk one night and i kind of distanced myself from her. i told her that i thought she was "that weird girl that thinks i'm her cousin" (inside joke) and stuff. so then the next time i met her, everything was cool i didn't notice any difference, but then on facebook chat she was like "did you notice i didn't call you my cousin once when we hung out?" i was like cool i didn't notice but now we can be friends right?

i know i need to be more flirty with her but i just don't know what to say

oh and she just broke up with her boyfriend and so we talked about both of our ex's for like 30 minutes.