So there is this girl who i'm really going after. I told her i liked her and that I would like to see how we can make it happen. She told me we can go for breakfast, but she didn't respond. Mind you i was in new york only for 2 days and when i was leaving she said i can go over her place but i was already leaving. She seems to be playing the catch me if you can kind of games. How do I get the ball on my court? Because it seems i've lost power in this. My plan is to be like hey i'm in the city lets hang and if she says yeah to not text her all day and the next day say something occured, but next time we should chill.
WATCHA THINK? Got any suggestions??

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Hey man,

Don't get pulled into trying to play mind games with women. It's a really non-masculine thing to do.

How is she playing catch me if you can games? She told you to go to her place... Sounds like she's playing 'you caught me now hurry up and do something with me'.

Power is knowing what a woman crosses a personal boundary and either letting her continue to behave 'badly' or being willing to man up and cross her off the list. If her not texting you back bothers you enough, then don't contact her again. The important thing to note is that for some reason, she believed you would be totally okay with her not getting back to you.

The reality is, she was completely right. You let her do it, and you're still pursuing her. That's why you lost your power, you forfeited a personal boundary.

HOWEVER, the reality is also that she might not realise she crossed a personal boundary, this power thing could be completely in your head still, and you only feel weak because you know you let her walk over you in a way you obviously don't like.

If you want to see her again, line up another date and see what happens. If she plays games with you, or doesn't reply, find another girl and perhaps tell the next girl when you meet her that you easily write women off when they are unreliable so she knows it matters to you. Don't be emotional when you say it, just let her know that your time is too important for women who play games. Then she might not assume that you would put up with it in future.