what's up guys.
i know that girl,she's so sexy an 8 by the way with a body of a greek goddess. in the first when i meet here i was c&f,alpha,every thing... in the first month together we were awesome having fun, kissing all the time,doing every thing together like couples do , but in the end of it i don't know what happened she became cold like when i say 2 her that i miss her she says something like( ok )not like what we had in the beginning when she says (i miss u 2) or she is the one who starts saying (i miss u) like 10000 times in the day, i told her why u being like this i don't like that, she told me i don't know what's up with me i know u didn't do any thing bad and the best boyfriend that i ever had but i don't know what's wrong with me, so i told her ok take ur time but i want u 2 know that i will always be here for u and i gave her the supporting talk blablablabla......
i left her for 2 days without talking or calling giving her the space she needs, but i didn't found her calling me back or any thing so i walked away off the relation and after a week i found her talking 2 at facebook and saying why ur not calling me and stuff like that, so i told her u can't leave me for a week without talking and u expect me 2 call, its not like u are the one who's calling me every day and i'm not calling u back,here where she knew that i broke up with her.
after 2 monthe we began 2 talk again but this time she's cold with me.sometimes i teases her and she teases me back , but i fell that she is not the fun, lovely,caring girl i knew may be she is hurt from me caz i left her or someting but i don't know.
the problem is: i like that girl so much and i think about her from time 2 time and i loved the fun times we had together and i want her back.but i want 2 do it the right way , but i don't know how.

Basically i want to try and get her back & i need your guys advice.
-comments that say ''you have oneitis move on'' etc are not helpful, i'd like to give this a good shot if i fail atleast it will help me move on
-i have accepted that for what ever reason we may never get back together and im ok with it,

hey... well you can always get ur ex back unless she is seeing som1 else, you said she became cold and everythng...its bcz u gave her evrthng , she took what she wants from an relationship and now shes looking for some new challenges .... all u have to do is to come up with new ideas , be more creative , always unpredictable , in order to ger her back .. you have to show her that u still have a lot to offer ...give her a reason to fight for this relationship....cz girls hates routines...

Dude, by saying 'I'll always be here', you give her totally NO reason to want you because all the challenge is gone, you should act like you are at least capable of moving on without her (let her know you can get other girls).

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This can be answered easily.

She has no interest in you and feels no attraction.

You are too needy, you are too desperate, you are not a challenge, she has always been the prize throughout the relationship. There is no reason for her to miss you when you're always there begging for her. You are no longer an "Alpha" in her eyes and you are not dominant, she is going to dump you for someone else more Alpha who gives her more vagina tingles.

The ONE TIME you came close to saving your relationship, i e; ignoring her for a week, she began to miss you. However, you immediately blew it right after BIG TIME be overtly communicating to her that you were INTENTIONALLY IGNORING HER TO GET HER ATTENTION. Your one attempt at fostering attraction was thus destroyed and you were back to being that desperate puppy in her eyes.

You need to be flirting with other women, she's not going to be interested in you unless other women are interested in you. You have to stop pedastalizing her and treating her like a princess. You have to man the fuk up and regain control over your relationship, not act like an AFC. You need to go to the gym and get a torn physique, you need to do 50 pushups right now.

You clearly have a MASSIVE case of Oneitis, why haven't you handled this? You aren't new to this forum, you should know all this already. Knowledge is nothing unless you learn to apply it correctly.

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