Boys i wanna bang my ex. I havent seen her for like 18 months and we've been bumpin into each other a little bit lately. She is fuckin smokin hot, a genuine HB 9, but i do not wanna get back with her. Just fuck her.
Shes still fairly touchy feely when im round her. Im thinkin of using Gunwitch method or a bit of caveman.
Any thoughts.

Cheers.

when you talk to her be more confident and cocky that you were when you were with her. pretty much act like you have 5 supermodels giving bj's every day....thats how you should act when ur around her. gunwitch method would be best here.....combine a lot of kino with an "i don't give a shit" attitude and you got it down.


good luck bro later

Yeah, if you did not leave in bad terms and from the looks of the post you didn't... all it takes is a dark little corner, take her there and kiss her without hesitation. If she reacts surprised but doesn't push back then hey you got her. If she does then just murmur how seeing her again has brought a lot of good memories of the two of you having great sex and you needed a taste again. This should get her memories rolling as well and get you laid again. If she tried to rationalize the whole situation on the spot just kiss her to shut her up ( or a simple "shut up honey") and a lot of kino should get her going.

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All I have to say is that if you were an AFC when you two were together, you have to blow her out of the water now. As for method, Gunwitch sounds good, but at the same time you want to let her know that you're over her, you're a new man, and you're a bigger better deal than you were before... throw in a bit of cockfunny. But remember that every woman is different, and you probably know her best. Getting pointers is one thing, but if you already know the psyche of the person you're going after, you can probably make the best educated decision on your own. Good luck buddy, and don't forget those negs. Good luck on plowin' your ex.

~Rin

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Thanks boys.
Do you think i need to ring her to initiate this though?
Just say "come for a drink" or some shit like that.

Cheers.

Put it this way, you haven't made a move this far, right? If that's what she's interested in (and it seems like it, since she keeps making passes at you), ask her out to someplace public yet private, someplace where she can feel comfortable with you and connect. Sorry for the late post, I just came back from some lame club in L.A.

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I have to thank Apollo for this, he really is the master of turning around ex's to Fuckbuddies and even friends who he's known for years!

two things:

1. REFRAME your old self, dhv, scream confidence. Your a whole new person. Its all so easy!

2. Kino. KINO KINO KINO. Play fight, play wrestle do everything. Kino like crazy, if you dont you wont get her hot and horney.

Then you plafully throw her on your bed. Kino play more. Pin her arms above her head and go for the k-close. After that you really shouldn't run into LMR.

Here is why:

Check list:

-Attraction/high value [Not there when you start]
-Extream levels of trust and comfort already there.

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what happens if you left with bad terms is there any possible way to atleast become friends zone and maybe more later? (I want to get back on her good side)

co-sign...I agree with lyric

If you left in bad terms it all depends what the bad terms were. If it was you cheating on her it would be really hard to get back in there as you would be paying big for a while and sex would definetely be witheld from you. Anything like that I would avoid like the plague, if it was a stupid little argument that caused the break up that neither of you can probably even remember or can laugh about now, then you still have a good chance but it would be like starting over. Not as hard though as you already had some established relationship before and would only be setting up new boundaries again. Then you would have to work her up a bit on getting sexually attracted to you again. If she sees you as a whole new person that is more confident and knowledable then it should be easy.
But for the most part think of it this way.... if you were at fault, would you go back with you for what you did to that person?

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i find it that if you ditched a girl, no matter how much she liked you when you were together, she will reframe everything in her mind, with you being a super jerk and her being the poor innocent girl who got tricked... I know it s not logical, but who says girls reasoning has anything to do wit logic?

This actually happened to my friend recently: he ditched this girl (HB9) because things were going too fast and she would do ANYTHING for him until she got him bored. Now she goes around calling him a joke and what not... she doesn't seem to realize that she is really DLVing herself because it means she went head over heels for a joke!

My point is, if a girl conditioned herself to hate you it s gonna be very hard to make her change her mind

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"This tough guy, will get by, while the chickens wonder why
I don't be callin cause it's like Ex to Next kid
I know what I want, and just how to get it" Gang Starr

Thank you boys.
As ussual you've been more than helpful.
I'll let you all know how it goes.

Cheers.