Crisis: how to handle cockblocking from earlier lays??



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PostPosted: Thu Jun 16, 2011 1:02 pm 
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Dont know if this is the right section to put this up but here goes


(long) CLIFFS:

- Picked up this HB6 early this spring and banged her. Did not stay in touch with her afterwards.

- I live in a small town where there basically is just one club where everybody goes on weekends and other partynights.

- HB6 got very attracted to me and made herself as available as possible to me whenever we were out clubbing at the same time. She also tried to make me jealous by making out with many of my good friends. She only succeeded in pissing me off because she was bugging me and affected my own gaming by craving for my attention. Many times she came out just yelling at me how "I'm an asshole".

- Ended up banging her about 1,5-2 months ago on a drunken night. Pussy is pussy. Did not stay in contact with her after this either.

- She has been latley regurarly showing up in the club with her best friend who is a batshit-crazy mother hen. This mother hen always comes yelling at me how i should get together with HB6 and how I'm an asshole blah blah blah... If im with other girls she does the same and cockblocks me. Dont really affect my gaming too much tho.

- One week ago on Wednesday I meet this HB9 at the club and end up making out with her. HB6 and mother hen were also there. This time they were angrier than usual since HB9 was from the same high school as them and HB6 was pretty fucking jealous over her. So they both come up to me and HB9 and start bashing about all kinds of shit. They tell HB9 how I'm a player and even go as far as telling her that I have HIV (I dont).

- HB9 got affected by the "Afrodisiac is a player, dont fall for him"-shit and ended up leaving the club. I got her number tho and I've been chatting with her lately on facebook. Apparently she's pretty into me... the game is still on! Hell yeaaaa!

- Yesterday (Wednesday) I ask her to come and party with me but she declined. However she insisted that I go out clubbing with her on Saturday.

- Well I went out with my friends anyways last night and end up meeting HB6 and mother hen again in an empty club. I was supposed to tell HB6 that im done with her. But what do you know, 10 beers and a horny bitch all over you makes things different. Me, HB6, mother hen and a bunch of my friends start walking out of the club and as we walk by my place and I'm going home, HB6 comes to my place "to go to the toilet". We end up banging at my bedroom while we left mother hen and my friends outside. Mother hen was pretty fucking pissed off because she was supposed to sleep at HB6's place (mother hen lives far from the city central) and HB6 had her car keys. I even heard from my friends just a while ago that mother hen was actually crying outside. Lol.

- Did not have the balls to say right at HB6's face that I dont want to have nothing do with her anymore. This means she probably now again thinks that "we have something going on" and has her hopes up.

- Now I realize I'm dun goofd. It is 99% likely that if I go out clubbing with HB9 on Saturday HB6 will be there with mother hen too. I dont need to be a psychic to see what is going to happen then. Major cockblocking will ensue. Because of last night's events all mother hen and HB6 has to say to HB9 is that I banged her on Wednesday - the day I was supposed go out with HB9!

- HB9 will probably be in disgust of the information she got from the bitches. It is very possible I lose my chances with her for good.

- I really like HB9. Not only is she hot as fuck, but she is also smart (studying for med school). Yes, this might be a oneitis-syndrome but I really dont pick up HB9's that often. And not smart HB9's. I have never been in a srs relationship with any girl before but I really think she could be my first girlfriend so to speak as she is what I'm looking for in a girl.

- In addition of being scared to lose chances with HB9 I'm scared of having to pick up girls again. I cured my social awkwardness (which majorly was a result of MM) by "being normal" just 6 months ago and miraculously I ended up in a 1,5-2month streak of picking up chicks every goddamn night I went out. I always had fun and was "in the zone". I really didnt try to pick up girls, I just did. I was in the moment brahs. Anyhow after the streak I went downhill as I created this ego about me being a player and had to go around the circle again. Right now I don't have too much confidence in my pick-up skills but somehow managed this HB9 tho.

- The question is: How the fuck do I minimize the damage HB6 and mother hen are going to make and keep my chances up with HB9?? I really feel like I got 3 choices here:

#1: Ask HB6 out before Saturday and tell her I'm done. This way I'm also hoping that she will calm mother hen down too if I make good sense to HB6 in the first place. However I think HB6 thinks I bring this up because I want to get together with HB9 so she will feel used as I just banged her and put "her hopes up". So I dont know if it will work as in reducing the amount of cockblock on Saturday.

#2: Talk to HB6 on Saturday BEFORE they start to cockblock me. This might just give them more incentive to cockblock me tho so idk if its a good idea.

#3: Just take things as they come and see what happens. If they start cockblocking me I can just stay honest and admit that I banged HB6 on the day I was supposed to go on a date with HB9. This will probably confirm the "player"-thoughts HB9 might already have of me so I might lose my chances with her for good. But on the other hand I'm just being "alpha" and "sticking to my own reality"... right?


So what is the right thing to do? Like I dont think that it was immoral to bang HB6 last night but I'm just afraid of the consequences that it has. So basically I dont feel like I did anything wrong but I still don't like the situation at all! The whole fact that I banged a batshit crazy HB6 will diminish my status and value in front of HB9's eyes, let alone knowing that I banged her just now. Fffuuuuu...

The point is that I was an action plan that MINIMIZES the damage HB6 and mother hen will cause and GET THE GIRL (HB9) regardless! I hope that some of you guys out there can talk from past experience on how to deal with these kind of situations.


THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR ANY ADVICE YOU GIVE!! It will be GREATLY appreciated :)


- Afrodisiac


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