So I'm in a relationship and before we got into it, a while back I did something bad. I don't know why I said it so carelessly but I had sex with another girl who I didn't know she really hated. It was after a rave.. >< That day was the most emotional day I've ever felt. I want a time machine damnit! lol. But I feel like I had to say it. We got over it but I feel like, once the wall has been crumbled, it can never be perfectly put together again. It's fixed, but there are still cracks.

I haven't talked to her today, but I looked in her blog, and she posted this:

.... feel like I’m regressing. With all the progress I made before, it just got swept away because my insecurities are resurfacing again. You don’t know how much your words affected me that day. You were so careless with what you said. I know you didn’t know though. It was awhile ago, but it’s still eating me up ....

I don't know what to do to fix this. Tis emotional.

Dude, I'm sorry to say this, but there's no way to fix this. If she can't get over it, and with posts like that, it's only going to get worse. I suggest you break up now. You may not want to, but you're going to have to. Next time try not be so careless.

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Grow a pair.

But I did that "action" before we were in a relationship...

Is she too emotional? You shouldn't get into a relationship if someones that emotional right?

she is being very emotional..

but if it's someone that she HATES.. than it's tough for her to swallow that fact that her partner was once with the Enemy.

you shouldnt have brought it up, but now its out.. all you can really do is let her deal with it and meanwhile play the "nice guy" role..

but after playing this role for a bit and she STILL brings it up or is still afttect by it with close to the same degree as when you told her then she's a lost cause..

Leave relationship..