Took her out on a date the other night and she tells me she like being single. She put up a high five for me to agree. If this would have happend before the day three I woulda agreed with no problem. Our day three was out on the boat with some friends. She couldn't stay off of me. Alot of making out very strong sexual kino. I all but fucked her with my friends right there. When we dropped her off for work she kissed me several times. Haha I'm confused. Anyway our date ended up at sushi bar with a live band playing. She was tipsy by this point and so was I. She starts hitting on other guys and I was hitting on other girls. She calls me the next day on her lunch break and apologized for acting that way. I would walk away but I don't want to seem like I've wasted time. What do y'all think.

Well clearly she does not want a relationship, u could try to bang her some more or even make her a fuck buddy.

If you don't want that for any reason, then its better to let her go and look for something else

Ps: Be carefull for One itis.

Goodluck!

i still dont know what is wrong with that. I mean, whats your objective? is she a potential girlfriend? It kind of looks like a shit test to me... and if you were hitting on other girls, you passed the test. I had a very similar episode ... she even went on dates with other guys. Honestly, it just helped me out. She had a bunch of guys hitting on her, and her cell was always getting messages which kind of pissed me off a little just cause i dont like nomophobic ppl. One day, after we we had spent the whole day at the beach, we were having dinner, talking and laughing and she starts getting messages. I grabed her cell and turned it off. She was like "oh, you are jealous. I told her straight up: "You picked me up and spent the whole day with me, you come down to see me almost every day. Im your #1 choice when you want to have fun, im right here in front of you... how can i be jealous of some1 who wants to be on my spot?!"... Other guys just showed her how much she enjoys being with me an it worked in my favor. I even told her: "go out with them... have fun... let them pay you dinner... but next time make sure you ask for some shrimp to go so i can have a taste of that dinner too".

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To me it sounds like you were having fun, I don't get why you want to walk away?

Why do you not want to see her anymore? Was she being a disrectfull skank when you were out?

Does she seem like the kind of person you would like to be around and get to know more?

Or have you seen enough and no you want to see less?

That's what dating is. It is spending time with someone doing things to get to know them and see if you want to spend more time with them or not. On one end of that spectrum you say, "OK, I've seen enough. I don't want to continue doing this." and on the other end of the spectrum you decide you want to be with this person forever and share a home and family and a life with them.

4 dates is NOT enough time to know if you want to marry her but is it enough to know that she is someone you do NOT want to "invest" any more time and energy into?

What are you thinking and feeling here? Why are you wanting to walk at this point?

Wow! I totally didn't look at it like that. You make very very good sense. I don't want to walk away but I don't want to fall into the friend zone and possibly get oneitis. I just got out of a very bad oneitis situation. Haven't felt better and hooking up with more women than I ever have. Just never been in this situation. Thanks yall