Im still working on my personal trainer shes so hot. It's soo hard to tell if her IOI are genuine are not as she is obviously been paid to work at the gym and I pay her extra one to one sessions.

Clearly she is a very popular girl ive not added her to facebook as it could give her the chance to blow me out but she has about 1000 friends! (im sick with envy really).

She sent me a fairly flirty sms the other day ..part of it was " looking forward to see you are you up for some fitness testing ?

I sent her an sms the other day to ask her some stuff but this is the really odd bit:

I met her in the gym and she said oh sorry I didn't get your message as I was working. (But she new i had sent her one).

I just said what was in the message i.e can you bring in a book she had promised she said yes.

I said to her maybe you could bring it in on Friday and she said why whats happening in friday as if she had forgotten about are personal training session.

She said it was a stone cold face too and when i reminded her she wasn't that bothered she had forget. Maybe it was a shit test but wish i has joked with her saying oh so you have forgotten about me already!

On Friday when I see her i am going to question about her so called b/f, she will want me to take further PT lesssons but i cant bare the thought of her having a b/f, i would rather be blown out by her least I know for sure.

I might say

AFC: your hair looks amazing today
her: ohh thanks (hopefuly)
AFC: you know if you hadn't already told me you had a b/f I would have asked you out by now but lucky for you I live with my gay twin brother. Then change the subject.

or (something ive heard from another pickup artist)

AFC: ..I have a rule that I don't date friends ...even if they have amazingly beautiful as you as you.. then change the subject.


I think if she blows me out im going to be down for months very hard to meet nice genuine girls like her in my experience last one i met like that was over 10 years ago

its ok im almost 100% sure she has a b/f now as she mentioned someone call dean on twitter and one of her friends on facebook is dean and have a photo with her in ive also seen they use to run together

The guy is a pretty boy its bollocks looks don't count who ever says so is in denial.

Question, do you feel like she is into you? Do you feel like she has fun training you?
Personally, i would bust her balls on her "short term memory issue" since she forgets stuff saying something like "damn, you have a short term memory problem... i hope its not a side effect of spending too much time at the gym... if thats the case, im gonna stick to working out at home!". I would suggest you be sarcastic... it will allow you to be an asshole, you will let her comfortable to be an ass to you too and that will built comfort quickly (it works with me!)! I usually say "curiosity killed the cat... and sarcasm killed the assholes!".
If i wanted to make a move to go on a "date" i would probably throw a "you look tired, you need some rest girl! at the end, you are a girl, you cant take hard work like me! ... talking about resting... you only talk about workout programs and training... you should give me some hints on relaxing "lazy"outs! What do you do besides beating yourself up with dumbells?" ... and move on into a "oh realy!?... is joining you on those activities part of the training, cause i havent attended to those events!"
By the way... dont be affraid of her bf... if she havent told you or given you hints its cause she doesnt want you to know... BUT always assume they do! If she ever tells you that she has a boyfriend, just say "i know you do... i mean... i assumed you did... why wouldnt you have one anyways!" ... Besides, having a bf doesnt mean a thing... you never know how good their relationship is. Actually, everytime i meet a girl that has a bf but she doesnt mention it much, its cause something is not going well between them and she wants to get to know you without influencing you on how you should behave.

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Hi Brian thanks for the reply but yeah I know she has a b/f but she couldn't even look me in the eye when she told me it that's not right if she loved him why would she not be proud of him. Im going to give what you said a go if anything I could just use her for training all my PUA stuff on. Ive seen her b/fs photos though he is a right pretty boy but I know she likes me. I see you are from New Jersey reminds me when I went to NY the other year we watched the Jersey Boys AKA The Four Seasons was great. Wish i lived in NY that would be ultimate sarging ! my local town is out in the sticks I wana move into a city!