I walked into a bar by myself this weekend, and there was this "cool dude" leaning up against a table with a drink, and three HB 8's sitting next to him.

The second I stepped in, he slowly turned his head toward me, did the tight-twisted-face-with-big-eyes look like when you see something wierd and outrageous, looked over at the girls for a reaction, they were all looking at him, then me, then he looked back at me and then the girls again, keeping the same face.

One of the girls burst out laughing like a hyena, at me, and at his observation.

This is how wierd it must look to go out alone. Normal cool pussy-worthy guys don't do this. Most people go out with a huge group of friends they're with.

Wow, that guy was a total cunt. I'd have looked back at him with a similar expression, laughed, shaken my head briefly as though in disbelief and then gone on about my business, the image I'd attempt to convey would be that I found his judgement and evident insecurity comical and that he wasn't worth my attention.

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I don't go out alone but Me and my wings always get seperated when were sarging. We don't see each other again. So a lot of the time, we are basically alone.

Thing is, you can go out alone. Pick Up consist of bringing value and not taking value. So, if your out alone, and your just standing there by yourself, your value is dropping. Opening sets is gonna be harder. If you walk in and instantly start opening sets, your value is gonna be up because your being a social guy. Act like is a party at your house and everyone is your friend.

Your probably gonna be asking "what if there is no sets"? Guess what? Open everyone and get yourself in the talkative mood right of the bat. Even if is a group of guys, open them. If you can't open a group of guys, you need to seriously work on your social skills. Also, if it's a mix set open them. Mix is actually a lot easier then all girls set if your just trying to be social and have a conversation.

Later on, the sets you open can be used to your advantage to DHV yourself. When your talking to a group of girls without a wing, you can introduce one of the guys you talk to the girls. A good intro for him that will DHV you is "This is my friend XXXX, I just met him right now." Doing this, I had bitchy girls drop there bitch shield instantly because to them, I am just out being a social guy.

Bottom line, you can go out alone. You need to be really social though.

Yeah, but what I mentioned was what you get just for walking in the door. That's your starting place. A little hard to just start gaming the place from there.

Keep in mind people are sitting at tables and chilling at the bar, watching you get laughed at.

wardrobe and appearance are important if you don't want to be a spectacle.

think about the business/successful guy (just stopping in for a drink type deal)

he is going to be dressed/look a certain way.

versus

some emo punk with pink/purple hair walking into a club solo.

two totally different things.

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Yeah I thought that was going to come up. I dressed casually, chic, like I am at work or out on the street.

Brand new striped banana republic button down shirt (that fit me! And I'm average build) tucked into dark slacks and nice dark shoes. No wacky hair or jewelry. This is the look of a decently successful dude who's got his stuff together.