Hi Friends!

Good to be here and looking forward to gaining some knowledge in becoming a little better with women.

Im a nice guy, and think a girl deserves to be treated by us dudes who arent noticed. I love women and find their company to be healthy for the heart and mind.

Theres this chick ive known for years. I just want to casually date her and get it out of my system.

Now she says she wants to see me but doesent show interest much. im not showing much either.I know weve always got along well.

Im very new to this, as im only good at opening,attracting,closing etc in a club, because im in the state and mood (sober) but because im naturally good at it.

I just need an idea on how i can start? im really all over the place with this pick up thing.

thanks

If she says she wants to see you, why aren't you seeing her now? Anyway, maybe try a couple of these things, and see how you go.

1. Kino. Very very very important. See how she reacts to that, and go from there.
2. Seductive eye contact. Or it doesn't even have to be seductive at all. Let her be the first one to look away. Maybe try some triangular gazing. Whatever works for you.
3. Maybe stop being the nice guy. I'm not saying to be 100% asshole, but add a little mischievous side to your personality. Tell a few dirty jokes, I don't know.
4. If you've been friends for ages, maybe ask her the same question you asked us? Express your views to her, that you want to start a relationship.

Good luck!

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