I’ve been having a problem lately with the women I’m meeting. I have no problems cold approaching them, getting their phone #’s, texting and banter. They all like me and even initiate hanging out with me. The problem is that I have about 20 girls phone #’s in my phone and none of them want to fuck me or are sexually attracted. It’s kinda cool that I’m seen hanging out with 5-10 hot chicks at the bar every weekend, but I’m trying to get laid here. This is how I figured it out. If I would invite them over to my house to have dinner with me they always flake. (I’m guessing they know it’s a date) If I invite them out to the bar they never flake. (I’m guessing there’s no pressure, in public, just as friends) All we do is hang out and have a good time, it never gets physical. The only escalation I can get is high 5’s, hugs, and an occasional kiss on the cheek. What can I do different from the beginning of the cold approach to increase the sexual attraction? Or am I not getting any attraction at all? How can I fix this problem. I’m getting frustrated!!

If you're trying to build up sexual attraction, then I suggest you take a read of "Gunwitch Method" or 60 Years of Challenge. No one else explains it better than they do. Just a brief summary - constant kino is one thing you must keep up. Kino Kino Kino. Make sure she complies with the kino; continue your micro escalation, seductive eye contact, triangular gazing...

Yeah check out those two books they explain it a lot better than I do.

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If you still aren't getting anywhere after taking that advice, then I would just jump up the pressure. Don't be a jerk, but go for the kiss, and "force" situations that require her to either accept it or decide she doesn't want it. Either way is a plus: you've successfully upped the sexual tension, or else you no longer have to waste the time on her. Otherwise, you are dangerously close to being put in the friend zone.

"Sexual Tension"

I had exactly the same problem, then i figure this: no girl will be confortable enough to have sex with you if she is not confortable enough to talk about sex in general! Getting into the sex subject might sound hard, ITS NOT! You say that you confortable txting correct? Next time she txts you, answer this: "give me a sex ... i cant talk right now". YES, SEX, it wasnt a typo! Actually, it was a purposly made typo! They usually react like "give me a sex? lol... what?" ... just answer "if i wasnt busy, maybe i would do you that favor" (just play stupid... and then you can say "sorry... i ment give me a sec... i was just starting to think you were a sex addict"). Work something around those lines. Or even say, "yeee... im a sex addict, what can i do about it".
If you are "friends" with them, im pretty sure you pay them a shot at the bars or something. Say this: "This one is on me, but i hope you know i only pay drinks to girls who pay back with sexual favors!" ... if she gives you a nasty look, just say "so you better pay the next round or you owe me!". When she get you a drink, play pretend! I say "are you trying to get me drunk?! this girls now a days... trying to get a guy drunk just so they can get on his pants! They dont care about feeling anymore!".
I love to tag them as sex-addicts, you can always point something they say or do and relate it to her addiction. Or when they call me an asshole... thats like allowing you to flirt with her with the excuse "oh, you tagged me as an asshole... im just making sure i follow your intruction!". Another way of getting started with the sex convo is saying "i think i picked the wrong day to hang out with you... lots of interesting women here and im feeling pretty hot today! today could be my "lucky" day and im here just having drinks with you!"
This kind of stuff works for me cause im very sarcastic. And if you are asking yourself "well, if you are sarcastic, they will think you are playing around!"... one thing is what you say, another thing is what all your body language tells them. Show her that you ARE interested in sex, not necessarily with her, but that you do enjoy sex! Im not kidding! Dont be affraid of showing that at the end, you are a guy and you do need to have sex! As mentioned before, KINO KINO KINO!!! Get her confortable to proximity.
Im not saying this is what you have to do!!! Im saying that it works for me, and you might find this helpfull!

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