hello there guys, im sort of new to this pick-up thingy.. ive been with a girl i liked since gr.10 and we sort of spoke about having a relationship.. the thing is that i live in lebanon and girls here are overly proud, and think they can get any guy they want, its because of the stupid guys who blindly give attention to any girl.. my problem is that sometime i try to tease her, and ignore her, and sort of get mad at her, but i dont know its like it doesnt work all the time with her and im sure im going wrong somewhere.. sometimes i feel she's more attracted to one of my friends and that really get on my nerves, like he even puts his pants in her locker, and it seems like she doesnt love me the way she says she does.. she gives excuses like how was i supposed to know, or i dont know much about relationships, or always claims that she did nothing wrong.. and then she keeps saying she loves me so much, but i dont really feel it when im with her.. like she doesnt come up to me infront of everyone and kiss me, or show that she loves me.. she claims that she's shy or doesnt want ppl to say anything about her.. but that only gives me doubts bcz if she really did love me the way she says she does.. she wouldnt act like that.. another thing that confuses me is that she gets me so many expensive stuff like perfume and shirts, but i only got her a rose on valentines day.. i try to make her feel like i have more options.. she she would say well you can go to "what's her face" if you want.. its really hard to explain, but i really like this girl, and i want her to get really really attached to me and make sure she doesnt look at guys other than me, please help me guys with some advice and examples on what to say to her or how to treat her... thanks!

She actually sounds like a cool chick! Reminds me of my #1.

I think what she is asking for is that you acquire more social proof.
I think she really does love you and sees something in you that is very special. The problem in her mind is that no one else sees it and she doesn't want to DLV herself.

I just decided that this situation will be called "In public in your PJs"

You are the PJs, comfortable but not to be worn in public. Just upgrade your social status to designer jeans and you will be her complete package.

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Hello there,

im from lebanon too,
i live in jounieh, and looking to form a pua scene. interested ? let me know