Hi guys.
Last night I was working at a local party and I saw this gorgeous girl sitting with a friend. I approached her, started talking and then their BFs came. I actually went to highschool with her BF, but we're not friends or anything. Anyways, I was on my best game, teasing her, built rapport with the BF, of course my intention wasn't getting with her or anything, just have a fun normal conversation with this group.
So this girl started giving me a lot of IOIs, a lot of KINO from her side, which I reciprocated, then she gave a nice wet kiss on the cheek and proceeded to touch my hair, like fucking petting me on the head for 5 minutes, all in front of her bf. As she drank more, she behaved more freely and was all over me. She knows I'm a lezbo, I got that out early on. So now I'm wondering, were those really IOIs or is she just this touchy/feely type of person? Cuz I think you have to discount some of the "IOIs" if the person is just touchy naturally.
I noticed she often touched the other girl in the group while talking, like on the shoulder, fairly briefly, but nothing like she was touching me. The BF didn't seem to mind though, so I don't know, maybe they're like into threesomes or something:) I have no idea what to think.
What are your experiences with girls like that?

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Anything that isn't a red light is a green light for me

Yes, I know what you mean I was just wondering if you guys generally discount some of the IOIs of naturally touchy girls.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

Interesting subject as I was thinking this one myself. Some girls, especially italian girls and generally latin girls, are very touchy even with people they don't know and with these girls touching you and even kissing you on the cheek means absolutely nothing. I think you need to look at the way she touches other people to determine if theres any difference.

Change Spanish for Italian. I 've lived in both countries.

And indeed - it doesn't mean anything.

Yes! I agree, only by comparison can you actually tell, which makes it difficult to know if you haven't had a chance to observe her properly. In this particular case, I was getting a lot more KINO than anybody else, but I still felt I should disregard much of it in terms of IOI. Thanks for your replies

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

they could have been genuine IOI's (which wouldn't make much sense in front of her bf)

or

they could have been a classic case of "whoa! look at me! i'm edgy! i'm hitting on the lesbian!"

straight girls are very aware that guys love (and are fascinated with) the idea of lesbians (especially, the "bi" kind, LOL) and they can't have you stealing all their thunder, so what better way than to act out the katy perry song?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Well, i hoped to see her last night cause I was working the same local party day 2, she didn't show and I doubt I'll see her in the near future. We'll never know grrrr.

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.