I am on a study abroad program and I meet this girl I have yet to K-close her yet but I have been getting a lot of great IOI's. ex. after I got her number she texted me the next day to study for our spanish test. (just the two of us in a coffee shop in the morning) I will definitely be going out to a bar/club with her in the next two days. In which I want to k-close I was thinking some kino escalation, dancing depending where we end up, mostly gonna play it by ear. I really like this girl she has a great outgoing personality and she is really cute. The major problem she is from Texas and I am from New Jersey so I will most likely never see her again but I want to have fun with her for the remaining three weeks that I am here. Is it a good idea to use a line saying something like I really enjoy your company and I want to maximize the time we have here together? 2. Is this to direct? 3. should I use this before or after I k-close? 4. Should I not say this at all?

You never directly tell a girl that you like her unless there is ENOUGH attraction between you two - allowing your approach to only increase rapport. Otherwise, it makes her the prize, ruins the concept of challenge, and gives her hand. Women want guys who have options and who are wanted by other women.

You have to convey that you like her by escalating. That way, she knows that you like her but you are still "on the market," meaning she still needs to qualify herself to gain exclusivity. You need to think of it as "is SHE doing things right to get me interested?" not "am I doing things right?"

Remember, you need to ALWAYS maintain an ABUNDANCE mentality. Squash any hint of desperation you might have.

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