Ok guys so here's the problem I hope you can help me out on this one.

So the situation is like this I have a lot of female friends, in fact the majority are now female. Compared to a few years ago when it was majority male.

BUT, and this is a big one. I don't feel a friendship connection with these girls unless we can get a bit physical -not to the extent of fucking but just I like to be more touchy feely, kissing or mild foreplay accompanied by idle conversation. Or able to lie in bed, in the park or where ever cuddling together, minimum i expect to be able to hug her randomly or have little playful fights.

the PROBLEM: I think I am leading some of my friends on by accident and now I'm an in situations where I feel that unless I hook up with them they'll be angry or that they think we're starting a secret relationship....


WHAT CAN I DO? I can't change the way I feel. If I don't get this intimacy i ether loose interest in them or get frustrated and push them away. Guy friends I can get drunk, play fight, Chill out together the usual. Does anyone else have this, if so how have you dealt with it because I feel that this is going to come crashing down on me and I'll loose all my good friends.


Cheers, Monday -step on

"Let's just be friends".

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Don't hate, just dominate.

you might just be right, I think I was trying to avoid having to ask that question as we might loose what we had...

But I still feel like this isn't normal like are there ways I can feel connected without having to get so physical.


Thanks all, Monday