Oke i got a serious problem, Like this girl so much but i screwed up BIG TIME

I met this girl last week, wich is a gf of a female friend of my. After a night out with my friends and her friends, i brought her home , and she gave me a lot of IOI's like , holding my arm while walking to the car, sayin i smell good( wich i replyed by that's because i shower !) keep pulling my hat of my head, keep looking in my eyes, wetting her lips, when she looked at my face up and down. So i was like , sure thing !. so when i stoped at her house to drop her off i said you own me icecream for driving you home. she laughed and said oke !. So the next couple of days later we talked on FB and true texting( she asked my number) , i posted a messege on her FB, sayin she still ows me icecream , and told her to let me know when she had time, and i would see if i got time for her.( now this normally works great for me.)


Here is where i screwd up BIG, My friend kinna likes her to and because he hassnt had a girl in like 3 years, i kinda helpt him out by being a douche en pushy towards her, and instead of waiting it off,for her to reply me, wich i normally do, i kept asking her, wich normally i know is a really stupid thing to do.

But now i wish i wouldnt have done that !!!!!!

Here is the tricky part, im so in to her, but now she is texting to my friend, But he says he does not like her all that much, but i can see he likes her,he is goin on a date with her next friday. I dont want him to not see her because of me, because he hassnt had a girl in like 3 years. But he is still in love with his ex gf. And he does know i like her, but not how much i like this girl.

Ive stopped talking to her on fb for like 2 days now, and diddnt text her anymore for 2 days also. the only time i hear from her is when she likes my link or song on FB.

I dont wanne take her away from my friend, but concidering the fact he doesnt like her that much,and he is still in love with his ex GF, is it even a good idea to try and get her back to Liking me, or should i just try and forget about her.( wich i really dont want to !)
Is there A WAY to turn it back to when she liked me ?? of im i just fighting a lost cause ??

I REALLY NEED HELP WITH THIS ONE i cant get her out of my head !

Christ,

This is some high school shit.



May the better man win - you forget if she wants you.. she will have you, not your friend.





Your only struggling because you are holding a mindset of scarcity. Have more than 1 option son..

It should be, she goes for me, great!.. I was what she was looking for - She goes for my friend, Great! she found a kick ass guy..

Both of you guys should be ok with this. If not, whomever has the problem likely needs to man up a bit.