| Hey! If your close with your dad, you could try giving him a few pointers. Maybe you can get him to start some kind of a workout program with you, go to the gym together, well at first at least, and try to subtly suggest a different fashion style, maybe go shopping together. He might not be too open for changes at first, but just stick with it.
Get him to know new people. If you have any friends, girlfriends with divorced parents that seem good people, throw a dinner party at your place or a bbq so he can expand his social circle a bit. I don't know how it is in Brazil, but in Spain for example, "older" people are very socially active, they go dancing and stuff. If there is a place where older folks hang out and do some ballroom dancing, you can take him there. Even if he doesn't meet available women, he'll make friends that can introduce him to women. A class of some sort, maybe cooking class or something with a lot of women is also a good idea. Dating sites are great, but beware of gold diggers.
About his game. If your father is generally charming and socially apt, I don't think he needs much game so to speak. I think people of that age work a little differently. I don't know how he would accept any advice coming from you, so you have to be subtle about it. Just ask him how's it going with the ladies and then give him some pointers so he doesn't act like a total AFC. If he expresses a wish you help him further, you can then give him some more pointers.
At this point, getting him to look more attractive and expanding his social circle is a priority, IMO.
I think it's great you're trying to help him out, you sound like a good son! I hope it works out!
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