I have realized over the past few months, now that game is becoming more important to me, that I have much more natural game than expected. However I have found that this is only with girls that I am less attracted too. I think this has something to do with that I feel as if I have no alterior motive, making me much more relaxed and chatty.
To give an example, i was at my friends house the other night and his girlfriend was there. Me and her got along really well as I knew in my head that she was taken and therefor felt no pressure to try anything.
I don't know if anyone has any methods for overcoming this do they? I would love to be able to feel the same relaxed self around all girls, but girls i wanna get with seem to flip a switch in my brain to be someone else.

thanks!
BB1

It sounds like your outcome dependant. Like you set an expected out come on a situation and if it doesnt go the way you want you feel shit. You should talk to girls just cos you wanna talk, even if they are attractive that should just be enough, sure the super hot girls it usually is. But if you talk to someone that your just physically attracted to and then turn out to be boring, have an annoying voice etc, it will kill it.

So talk to women with no set out come. This sure she is hot, but i dont know her yet and i dont know if i want her in my life so let me find out. Rather than "I WANNA FUCK HER"