Hey!
I dated a girl for a few weeks, but now it's over. Another girl I'm interested in knows I dated this girl, but they have no connection to each other. I want to date this new girl, but eventually she will ask me why I broke up with the other girl.
What should I say to display High Value? Telling her the girl left me (which is kinda true) is probably not the right choice, right. Shall I just say she was boring or something like this (indicating that I have high standards)? Any other good suggestions?

Well think: what do you value that your ex wasn't giving you?

Do you need someone more intense? With a better lust for life? Someone who isn't so uptight?

Whatever it is you can always frame it to suit you.



Still.... if she asks and you really aren't comfortable go with 'Everything in the universe- every conceivable moment in time and every conceivable position in space has occurred in order for this moment to be. Every asteroid impact to every beat of a birds wings has led up to this moment. Why are we dwelling on past events, when they have only happened so we can be here, now?'


Not my usual style, mind.... but you could always try it

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Who cares. Just say "we werent suited to each other".

stop talking/thinking about your ex.

Like you said, they have no connection to eachother, so the new girl can't verify your story, you can make up every story you like! It's a good idea to tell a story that will show class, something like you stopped dating her because she wasn't the adventerious type and what boring to speak to. If you tell her that the new girl will automatically try to proof herself, also because you ''gossip'' about the other girl the new girl wants to prevent you from doing that about her! Go get 'em tiger! '_'

I wouldn't say anything specific, you can use this to show how discreet you are. Just say, she's a lovely girl, but it didn't work out. If you say anything else, like make up traits that you didn't like about her, you might disqualify this girl, she might have some of them. If you say nothing, you show you're mature, discreet and not a whining pussy who complains over his ex. Just my 2 cents

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