I like to think im getting way better already after two months of Hard Pua learning. i can go up to any girl easy. Get a conv going. Have fun and neg at the right times. But i have the hardest time getting any numbers. Im so bad and awkward that i can barly ask a guy ive been friends with for years for his number. I dont know when to ask and dont wanna use the stereotype can i have your number and get a auto no response, but even thats probably better than not asking at all. Any ideas on how i can get better at this? Or bring it up in a cant say no way?

get the number when you're about to leave.. just say.. hey, imma go now... let me get your contact... you can maybe ask her phone... tell her you'd type your number there.. call yourself to make sure you got hers

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One almost universal thing I learned about girls (in fact about ppl in general) is that if YOU make a big deal out of something, so will they.

It can be opening her, holding her hand, hugging her, asking for number, asking her out, kissing, or even having sex.

What I do is something like "Hey, you look like fun/you are interesting/whatever." *sly smile*
I will take out my phone and look at her and keep looking as if she already agreed to give me her number and I was just waiting for her to tell me.
If she looks confused or says "What?", I just say calmly "Your number". With straight face still looking into her eyes.

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Numbers are easy. Btw, if possible, stay and talk even after getting number to make it more solid.

Just gotta push yourself.

Easy method for a numberphobe like yourself. Shortly before either of you leaves, take your phone out, put it in her hand, and say: "put yourself in here, I'll call you some time." As mentioned, don't make a big deal of it. Just be nonchalant about it.

Not sure how long you've been at this, but you'll find that often enough she will want you to have her #. That said, I view a #C as a failure. I can't fuck a phone, let alone my own. Once you adopt that attitude, you won't be nervous about #Cing anymore. If a # is a failure, why be nervous about settling for it?

yea dude, what the guy above me said...

During mid conversation just take your phone out an put it in her hand,you dont have to say anything tho. Just take it out while your talking an hand it to her

Not to just be against everything you say and go "well what if" lol. But I got a crappy phone thats really old, I dont show other people cuz ive been made fun of for it by my friends already. I think if i gave it to her she'd be to busy laughing if you know what i mean >< do you think if i said "I don't get why everyone makes a big deal out of getting someones number, they should just ask like "can i have your number""? and mean it in a way where im really asking

Don't do that, you're implanting the message that it's a big deal and you're asking. You don't want to ask a girl for her number, you want to tell her to give it to you e.g. at the end of a conversation: "You seem cool, give me your number, we'll hang out sometime."

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if you are insecure about your phone, treat it like other insecurities... for example i dont like my dick but i dont let my partner know that, when i whip it out i own it, i make it seem like this is the dick to have, this is the best dick in the whole wide world. phones and cocks are alike in that girls dont really care about the tool, they care a ton more about the wielder of that tool and how you carry your tool. if she makes fun of your phone, go along with it, thats just more conversation and more opportunity to show how alpha you can be. "yeah i know its hella old but this phone is fuckin awesome, i've dropped it off a 5 story building on more than one occasion and it's still alive... new phones these days break too easily"

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Don't worry about it, getting a number is the easy part. Just tell her "anyway gotta go, what's your number?". She can either say:

"0123456789 (her number)"
"sorry I don't give my number out"
"sorry I have a boyfriend"
"why do you want my number?"

If she says "sorry I don't give my number out" just tell her you promise to limit yourself to only ringing her 5 times a day every day, then tell her again to tell you her number. Usually gets a laugh, shows confidence and persistance (both attractive qualities).

If she asks why you want her number, tell her the truth "I think you're cute/hot/seem like fun and I want to hang out/take you out sometime".

If she says "sorry I have a boyfriend" then I'd say just leave it.

Don't worry about rejection, everybody gets rejected and it is a numbers game no matter how much people say differently.