| I met this chick a few weeks ago through a mutual friend. After our meet, I told my friend that I thought the girl was cute, and she passed the info along to her (I didn't ask her to do this). Apparently, this chick thought the same of me, and I asked my friend to ask her if it was okay for me to get her number. She agreed, and I started talking/mostly texting this chick for a few days to get to know her. I told her we should get together, and we met up a few days later when our schedules worked. Everything seemed pretty good. I moved slowly, and we eventually made-out for a little while. We ended up hanging out again two days later, and sparks flew. She ended up spending the night, and we had sex. The whole time, we were pretty hardcore into each other. A couple of days later, I went out of town for a week, but texted her a bit during this time. A couple of days after I was gone though, she pretty much seemed to lose interest, and didn't respond to me/initiate convo very much. Sensing that I was moving too quickly, I pulled back and starting laying some negs, and ignored her a bit more. When I got back in town, I told her we should hang out, and she agreed. When I tried to set stuff up, she gave some bullshit excuses, and today she was supposed to get back with me about hanging out, but she flaked. I am not about to call or text her to let her know I'm not desperate, but I've never seen someone so hot and cold. What do you think is going on? Should I continue to ignore her for the next few days? Have I lost this one yet?
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