Basically i did a quick search of the forum and couldnt find anything which i could use so any ideas would be useful.
Background: basically i approached this girl at a party and she compleatley shut me down but just as i was leaving she approached me and gave me her number and saying she was sorry bla blah blah... but anyways shes added me on facebook and started talking to me and i have had to put no effort in thus far but i want to get her to be the one always wanting to talk to me as when ive tried this before its not really worked so any tips would be appreciated... cheers guys

Seems like a Job for:


The Push and Pull technique!

Leave the lady's wanting more!

You must first start by mentally framing yourself as the prize. Play hard to get, do all the things that girls usually do to guys. " what is she gonna do to show you she deserves you and everything you have to offer?... " you have to be able to let her go an walk away knowing their are many girls just like her. She has to prove to prove to you what makes her so much more special than all the other girls you have to choose from... Etc..

Their are a lot of good readings on the subject.. Google " framing yourself as the prize"

However you also must recognize yourself as someone thats worth chasing after.