Well, my only other post introduced me as a (A try to be cool, desperate) 24 year old virgin.....although true, that's certainly not the complete story...
I haven't finished "the game" yet, with my humble versions, I have experienced a lot , as I am sure many have, to be honest(er) this is would make it probably the 6th book, that I have completely finished, anyways, so now I have this new acquired hobby of reading, and that book, is now what I'm reading, and for some reason I know that 'dealing with the opp. sex' in every way was really uncomfortable, and it was holding me back, to a certain point it still is. I did realize however that many of the advices that I ignored "being the nice guy" have proven to be true in that book. which for a reason - that is also pretty common, I felt like Style, well, never like Style actually, but always like Neil. - I want to believe every word, and I do, but I will discuss the book later, but I have an exam tomorrow, so I gotta get to the point before I pass out, and forget the important stuff for me right now,,,,
So, I met Kate in my Physics class about a month ago ---2 comments ahead--- (Wow that seems like a lot of time and I don't even have her #, I just realized that) (Lots of HBs take Physics class nowadays, it's the computer people that are doomed
), I was prob. in the middle of the book by then, but were in the lab we were not paired up, but we were facing each other, I was paired up with another girl, she is really beautiful, but you had to see it to see it, she was shy her name was Sylvia, she was shy, I did like shy girls, still do, well all kinds of girls, who am I kidding....and Kate was paired up with a guy that was my partner the week before, so I was cool with him, as I was trying to be my usual nice automatic self in front of almost any girl (unless she was pushy and ugly,,,just the latter won't suffice ), so the only one I was kinda ignoring, and using to do jokes for Sylvia, was who I wanna call My Kate in the near future, and when she showed the tiniest hint of interest, I remembered most of what I read ( I was surprised too at how much of it stuck in my head ), and in my clumsy ways, I'm trying to do not, routines, but, a kind of a personality change, like not always being extremely nice, but nice sometimes, ignorant of her existence at times,in lecture break, when she told me she wanted to get a tattoo under her rib, my stupid but for some reason not really shy jumped and said "Can I come with?","No" she said, it did get a little awkward for a sec. I asked her a tattoo of what and she was defensive, and wouldn't answer any questions, so I quickly let it go and the break was over, thank God.
When the class ended, I went and told her "I gotta go ..", before I finished she said "You can go, ", "I know, I wasn't asking" I replied, "I gotta go see a friend, but I wanna continue that conversation about that tattoo later" I thought about that all the second part of the class, for which the exam is in exactly 9 hours.
I came back after smoking a joint with my buddy, and it was the hottest day in the summer so far (40 deg. ) and I sweat a lot, so 1 hour later, and 20 min. of walking in heat, and all the sweat, I entered the class, and there she was sitting, so I went up, and sat next to her, and I said "Why I am asking and interested so much in the tattoo, is not the tattoo itself, but you didn't really strike me as the type ", and we talked and talked, until the class tutorial started, I started by paying a little attention when I realized, both realized that I 'm starting to stink from the 20 min. walk back and forth to smoke a joint in between classes.....so the class ended I walked her to the library, told her gotta go home, see you tomorrow.
So today, as I come in to school 10 min early, I start reading in my kindle, and waited the same place I saw her the 1st lab after I met her, I see her from far away, and decide to completely focus on reading, soon, she's over my head, this time, I didn't even get up, all those kinds of body language stuff that you pay attention to, and as soon as I changed some behavioral stuff about me, I could see the change in how people react so we were doing the lab, and we got partnered up because both out partners didn't show up, lucky me, but there was on guy "Ishak" I also did a lab with once, that I really don't like, he just doesn't take a hint, he pushes and pushes for anything, anyways, we were doing the lab, and after some jokes and shit and with an hour left for the lab to finish, during my part on the computer, she said "you're too slow computer guy", I gave her the finger "playfully", she was really surprised, with a funny "don't touch me" when my old me kicked in again to kinda touchily apologize to her, but then I remembered ,"don't call me a computer guy" I told her, and then told her to write a part of my report, she said no, but in a bit she handed me the lab report, she is a very beautiful person on the inside, she is, I just know it...
And we have the exam tomorrow, so after the lab I suggested we get something to eat, she was gonna go eat home later, she said, that guy, followed us, and wanted to group study in the library, so unlike old me, I resisted, and decided to eat by myself, and left her with him, I wasn't paranoid this time that every guy who speaks to any girl I like is an obstacle, so I was cool about it....in about 30 min. I called him, because I had his number, oh shit,,,,but he did ask me if I had her number, because she was gonna be with him, and I said no, and made a stupid joke that she wouldn't give it to me....I asked her again if she wanted to eat, she said, her ride comes in 30 min. so 20 min. later, I finish eating and I call Ishak, and ask him where he was in the library, I go in, she had left, so I stay with him for half an hour, and leave....
And I'm going to see her again tomorrow during the exam, I guess am asking for helpful tips like, should I sit next to her tomorrow, If I finish early ( almost always do) do I wait? do I help her with her exam ??? stuff like that .....and getting you guys familiar with the first story in the first online community that I'd like to be active in, about my potential future first proper girlfriend , I feel really good about this.
V, Peace, V
Solo Moe
P.S: I didn't want to proof read the whole thing, so if there is shit that don't make no sense, ignore it, and the cause would be spending 9 hours in university, and then a couple of hours home ( spending 1 and a half writing this ) and having to sleep now it's 1:15 and 8 hours left ....
CHAT