| Update. I found 3 targets, well more, but three serious ones. The first one I was doing awesome on. She was leaning into me and ready to go for the kiss when a guy in the camp site, who was waaaayyyy too drunk asked how long we'd been together. I seem to have an uncanny knack for making women so comfortable inside of 15 minutes that people think we are a couple. She replied with we just met. We went back to our conversation and a few minutes later he says... and I quote: You two should fuck. I recover it, get to that point again except this time she is touching my arm and my hand is on her leg, we were basically isolated because everyone else had seen where things were going and smiled at me with a thumbs up. Dude does it AGAIN. I recover this AGAIN. Then he does it one last time and she says she is going to her tent, asks me to take her and then turns around and shakes my hand!!!! I'll get back to this one... This was a HB9!!!
So as I said, my ex was going as well. There was also this guy who always tried to dominate me and it had started making him look bad. I've known him over a year and we used to be close until I swept the ex from under him. Well he was a key point to this whole adventure... it was weird how so much of what he was doing fed into my weekend. He was trying REALLY hard to game this beautiful blonde with the magnificent breasts. Just gorgeous. Another 9. Well I would be out walking and see him and her talking and she would wind up just watching me as I would walk by. I would just smile and nod because she was talking to him though. Well... at one point I see her laying on a blanket talking to him close to my camp where I am heading anyway with the ex. She gets up while he is IN THE MIDDLE OF A SENTENCE and tells him she will talk to him later. She was just close enough for him to hear what she said but I couldn't hear him. Even my ex commented on how he looked to be trying to score with this chick.
So she gets up, comes over to my camp and introduces herself to me. She sits down. Chick is wearing nothing but a sarong. Well she sits there and talks with me and my small group. My ex, guy named Adam and my friend Emily. I make sure everyone is involved in the conversation when she touches my hand and starts admiring my rings. Then tells me how nice my voice is and how "pretty" I am. I take the bait of three IOIs and we start chatting. I brush her hair, rub her feet and then she asks me to go to her camp with her for her lunch and I get up and leave with her, leaving the ex and Adam there at the camp. This girl was with a sociology study group researching pagan culture and festival culture and they are doing their field notes and bring me in to talk. I take her hand and listen and they ask for my opinion etc. Over the weekend they interview me for a total of SIX hours, most people are limited to 30 minutes! When they are done with lunch and field notes she informs me she is going to get some rest so I walk her to her tent and she says she'd invite me in but she is sharing a tent with a friend and didn't think she'd appreciate it. No big I say and we agree to meet up later.
So later that night I had had a few drinks and I see her walking with my ex... who is now BUCK NAKED except for a sarong with bells on it... and DRUNK as fuck. I see them walking and walk up and say hey honey... to my ex. We talk for a bit and the ex is like I have to use the bathroom. We take her to the portajohn there and while she is in there I kiss the blonde. Very smooth and when I pull away her eyes are closed and she has this huge smile on her face. But I sensed that my ex was behind us. I turned to her and smiled and started talking to both of them and we walked across the field to where the band was playing because the blonde needed to talk to one of the directors of the research program. While we are there she and I are holding hands and my ex HITS ON HER! FREAKING HITS ON HER IN THE CREEPIEST WAY POSSIBLE. Trying to get her naked and groping her and when blondie looks at me like "what the fuck dude" the ex catches it and stops and a couple minutes later she is pestering me to find our friend Jimmy so they can smoke some pot together. I keep having to say go fiind him yourself as I don't smoke pot. I wasn't argumentive with her, just like a firm "no you go find him". Blondie is like, you two go find Jimmy, I got things to do here and I will catch up to you later Jay. Ok cool. I walk off and DO NOT SEE HER THE REST OF THE NIGHT. Cockblocked. I see her the next morning... she tells me I was too affectionate and clingy. Get back to THAT later... it is amazing how this played out like a story... interesting pieces fall into place.
Remember the friend? He had started this game the first night where he had a bottle of Goldschlager and was asking women if they wanted a shot and if they said yes, he told them there was a kissing tax. Fun game but a bit too try hard.
Well the next morning I see this girl I already knew from various things and she had always had a boyfriend. SHe is playing Badminton with my friend Pan. This girl is easily a 9 as well. My perfect type actually... short, brownish red hair, eye lit up like Xmas trees, quirky and free. Real high quality chick. Everyone loves her, Very alpha, hospitable and gracious. The kind of woman you bring home to Mom and OMG her ass is too die for... I was NOT expecting to see her and apparently she had arrived the night before and never been more than 10 feet from me the whole night and I was so... in my head I didn't even see her. So I seeher now with Pan and she looks at me and is like Hey Jay! How you been and gives me a hug. Now... I hadn't slept in three days... I am BEAT AS FUCK and my tent is a fucking SAUNA so I go and sit down in a chair and start carrying the conversation these two were having. She brings up how the aforementioned "friend" had started this fun little game, the one I mentioned and how she thinks it was a wonderful thing in spirit with the festival we were at. I grin and say "I am not charging a tax for kisses" to which she runs over, sits on my lap and kisses me. Sits with me a few minutes to take a break from playing their game. We talk for a few minutes with Pan and she hops off my lap to go play again. My brain goes into overdrive. What is my next move?
Then Pan breaks it WIDE open for me. I always was under the impression that Pan was a natural, he could get any chick he wants and he says: I want to kiss these girls I dance with around the fire but I don't know how to tell if they want me to.
I felt like a shark at this point. He was trying to game her this whole time and left an opening right there and I sat there and said: do you want to know how you can tell?
I motioned for her to come to me, make sure it is ok by smiling at her and she nods. I do the C motion from the top of her her, through her hair to her chin... she RISES ON HER TOES and I give her two gentle, passionate kisses and pull off and she stands there on her tip toes and her eyes closed and says "that was amazing". At which point I said: I have to go now and smiled. She gave me the look and I said: do you want to come with me? and put her hand on my arm and we say good bye and walk off together. We talk and someone else comes in and I talked to him with her for a bit then excuse myself for an hour. I find her later, wandering around and looking like I am not looking for her. She is rubbing some guys back and when she is done asks me if I want a back rub... so I say yeah. She rubs my back and is like oh wow you are hot. I still hadn't slept and had a temperature. When she is done rubbing my back I lay back on the ground on my back and she starts rubbing my arms and chest very gently and leans in and kisses me. Now I have known her for a while. Not interacted with her TOO MUCH because, like I said, she had a boyfriend and in all honesty I look so different that most people didn't recognize me and she knew right off who I was when people who had interacted with me much more had no idea who I was until I told them who I was...
Knowing her like I have, I knew she wasn't some festival whore, hooking up every year etc. She was usually the one being chased and nobody getting anywhere.
Well she decides that since I have a temperature we should go swimming. We go to the creek and she strips down and we get in the water and here comes my ex with the guy she had hooked up with the night before. They go swimming with us and she sees me and this girl kissing... her discomfort is evident but I took it that it was because she was naked and the water was cold... I was wrong. I also thought it was because his ex-gf was swimming with us and he was showing more attention to her than my ex. Later my girl told me that she was looking at me the whole time.
Now my ex had made plans to spend the day with this guy. When we were done swimming me and my girl went to my camp and say and talked while my ex and her toy (he's really fricking beta) go to take a shower together and before they leave she really pops up her flirtations with him and looks over at me but I was too into this girl, talking to her. I even told her have fun. She had always accused me of being this obsessive, jealous type and I was always more of a big brother type to her when we broke up. I didn't like the gusy she was hooking up with. Woman beaters, junkies, etc. so this guy, yeah, he's a beta, but he's a good guy and I had no problems with him and her.
Well they get done with their shower and Adam has joined me and my girl and he is totally trying to mack on my girl and I just grinned and would AMOG him playfully then kiss her. Lo and behold here comes my ex... she sits with us. So I bring her into the set and we are all laughing. She's laughing at my jokes even... which... she doesn't do. That night is a costume party kind of thing and my girl's costume is a pictish warrior. Mud and blue paint. That's it. We are talking about that and my own costume... Lucifer. At one point I grin and put my necklace on her and she just beams at it. After I do that I lay her on the grass and give her the first real, deep kiss. Not the affectionate pecks and I hear my ex go oh wow... and she turns to Adam and is like so how you doing? I am just a very observant person. I notice things that others might not. So I do note her reaction in spite of her protestations beforehand that she wouldn't care if I was fucking someone right there with her present. She wound up being wrong.
I hear this so I think, it would be best to just head out and go away where she isn't. Me and my girl go walk to where she is camping with her friends and they are the organizers of the festival. I am good friends with all of them myself. They are just all grins at her and I together. We go over and we start getting into our costumes. Pan helps her with her body paint because I am already in my costume and I am a big part of the show so getting blue paint all over myself... not a good idea. Everyone is just eating her and I being together up. Well I have to wear make-up for my costume and here comes my ex and I send her to get her make-up and she comes back and starts helping by putting it on me. I really work hard to make her part of the group going on. The the big event happens and when the show is over my girl wants to wash the mud off and we go to the showers and in the shower we have sex. As we come out... remember the girl from the first night? she pops in the showers and the look on her face... if I had a camera! LOL
Then we go back to the bonfire and eat some food and then we go off and have sex in the field. Both of us waaayyyyyy outside our comfort zone and she is eating this up! I am also tripping balls at this point and we are in the field a good three hours, enjoying each other in various ways. Afterwards we make the rounds where she SHOWS ME OFF. Our friend Z pulls me aside to make sure it is ok that they are friends... Z is a BIG MOTHER FUCKER and trains cage fighters... this is intense for me.
As we approach dawn I see blondie. I tell her to come and sit with me for a minute and she sits and I tell her I need to tell her something and she says ok... I inform her that my ex is my ex and when I said hey honey, I was talking to the ex, not her. She said she knows, she had just sensed the link between us and didn't want to be what broke it so she made up a reason to not continue our flirtation. She sat with us for a while, interacting with all of us and I was sitting here, with Z, her, the guy my ex was hooking up with, another friend who provided the doses while IN A BUNNY SUIT and here I was... tribal leader with his queen and that was very much what was going on. We sat in the center of the circle of people and held court, dictated the conversations and everything. My ex was nowhere to be seen. One thing that had happened earlier in the night, just after we got out of the field adventure was the "friend" who came up with the game. Remember him? Well... he walsk up to my girl... who he has had a HUGE crush on for 7 years. Well... he does his game on her, she lets him kiss her and then sensing I was there as I had walked away... says that isn't good enough and kisses her very passionately and she lets him for a minute as his WHOLE BODY LANGUAGE enveloped her! She then BREAKS THE KISS and side steps him to see me and says "hey babe" he turns, sees me and disappears for the rest of the night and leaves very early the next day. He had always tried to dominate me in the past and I had owned the whole weekend... I was told this by SEVERAL people and many of them are STILL giving me value offerings almost two months later!
The ex had a complete meltdown in the car taking her home... just yelling at me for doing things she had always done to me in the past when we went out. Making her feel like a third wheel, leaving her alone in a place where she didn't know anyone (she has all the same friends I have there so she had plenty of people to talk to unlike when she had done this to me in the bars where we used to live) and forgetting her in favor of blondie and the girl I wound up with. It was a real tear... we've since had a long talk about things and she has apologized though I have not apologized for what I said to her. She had always thought I was really bad with women etc. not realizing what had occurred was what I was trying to avoid happening. Now she admits she was wrong about me and said she understands exactly why I was like I was with her. Hopefully a step in the right direction for her.
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