Hello gentlemen,

Quick background story;

Known HB9 for around 2 yrs. Always have gotten along fine with her, and I know shes interested in me. Spent alot of time with her last summer, but she was seeing a friend of mine and I ended up seeing other people during this period, but still stayed good friends with HB.

HB left city I'm in for the city were both from, and left me at school for the year. She is now back for the summer and beyond, but has been dating a guy for maybe three months back home (not the city where both in). Were both super comfortable with one another, I know she likes me, we've slept in the same bed FWIW numerous times, but never got downn.

This shouldn't be too tough considering the bf's not even around, yet I am unfamiliar with this situation and I am looking for anything you guys might have to say that will bring her over to the right side, without looking like an asshole ripping apart some guy I've never met.

Thanks in advance

Seems like a pretty asshole planned situation already, they have something going on and obviously your not the right side you just want her and couldn't care less about them together. From the number of responses looks like no one wants to help a asshole.

But nonetheless since she is comfortable with you get another alone time together and this time try to rise the tension, sex is a good topic. Ask her about her boyfriend and what he is lacking and joke around with it, get it deep into the intimate level. Lots of touching!

unless she's got a ring on her finger, she is fair game.

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