So I told this HB8.64346 (I calculated this) I was into her but I know she's got a man so if she's happy with him I'll back off. She said she'd totally date me if I would've met her before she met this guy. She also wanted to make sure it wouldn't be awkward for us to still hang out. I said "No". So that obviously leaves us as "friends". She texts me every other day, I never text her first. She always invites me over to just chill with her and her roommates. I usually come over, which now I'm starting to think I'm too accessible for her. We hang out 1 on 1 sometimes and we always have amazing conversations just talking about life and what not, we lose track of time most of the time.

This leads to my question. How do I make sure that I don't fall into the friend zone so that if/when her and her bf break up she'll be wanting to get with me? Also, I'm thinking I'll ignore her next text or two and try to not hang out with her for a while so that I refrain from getting one-itis and also since it is taking away from time that I could be gaming other girls, agree?

the most obvious way is to just be sexual... text her flirty mesages and such... but as of now maintain the friend fram... so... friend frame with sexual and flirty stuff. ;)

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the next time she asks you to come over i would just say cant i am going on a date, throw it in there that loads of other girls are after you mabe even add i am going on a date, I cant wait for you for ever, i will let you know when i am free. or what ever you thinks right for your situation just dont let her think you are at her beg and call Rember you are the prize not her.

You definitely don't want to be openly available at all times. The suggestion to mention that you are going on a date is a great one. The flirting suggestion is also good.

I wouldn't tell her that she can't wait around you forever because she might take it personally or think its weird because you already told her that it's ok if you two remain friends. You don't want to seem imbalanced.

You already have the trust thing going for you so that's a good thing. The key now is to start to build up the attraction. Maybe even make her jealous a bit.

Definitely avoid one-itis. Tell her you're going on dates. Better yet, actually GO on dates. Pull back a little on the hanging out with her. Don't agree to hang out every time she asks, and when you do hang out and her roommates are around maybe be a little flirtatious with them as well.

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Good advice here. I am always sexual and flirty with her and she enjoys it. I also make sure I'm flirty with her roomates. You are right though I need to heighten the jealousy factor and go on dates. Thanks for the advice all!