Hi guys,
i am fairly new to the pick up world. I did a lot of reading and basically i have come up with a few question regarding the topic. i suppose some of them are quite common but i would appreciate if you could answer any question u feel like.

So here goes:
1. Openers - most opener examples i have seen are quite transparent. i mean if i try to open a set with these things, the girls will not fall for it. so basically this means i have to be either ok and direct with it, or just hope that my appearance and body language will do the trick. what i am asking is do u have examples of more sophisticated openers, such that girls will not think i am an idiot asking them?


2. conversation should be natural. but still one should be prepared with a list of topics.
so what are your common smalltalk topics. what things can be brought into conversation without making it ridiculous?

3. in terms of escalating i thought about telling the girl one can say a lot about a person by her hands and then take her hand and kinda read it. do you use it? what interpretation can u give to ones hand? also maybe it could be funny to do the same with the ear. but not the first date though.

4. Hugging - what types are there? as a man i know only one...

5. how do u neutralize guys in set?

6. how do u deal with large sets.

7. FB pick up - i usually comment on the pic. negging a bit and it works. Some pics though have nothing special about them. what are the things u look for in the picture?

1. Opening job is just too open, don't put to much effort into you. My favorite opener is "Hi" or "Hello"

2. Conversation should be natural. I ask, where there from, what are the celebrating, etc...You be surprise how far you can go with boring questions.

3. I don't use any escalating routines. I kino during conversation. For example, if it's a loud bar, I will talk. Then when I can't hear what she is saying, I will not lean in. I gently grab her by her lower back, pull her in. When she is done speaking, i stop kino, and respond. Repeat. I actaully had girl 2 weeks ago asking to make out with me doing this.

4. I don't know, but I do lots of side hugs.

5. I usually approach every set, regardless if it's all guys, mix, or just girls. When you get observed doing this, set next to you is automatically neutreul. This is also why I use really simple openers.

6. Large set is the same as small set. Just speak up. For me, Large set is also a lot easier to handle without a wing then smaller sets. It's easier to isolate target from large set and number close. But SNL are really difficult. 2 set generally easier to get SNL off, but it requires a solid wing.

7. Dont do FB game.

7. I meant, I don't do facebook game.