Ok heres the situation, I have my cheat sheet in my back pocket which I looked at before I went out nothing special just the normal stuff on it. I looked over it as normal every thing was fresh in the mind.

Girl approaches me good open body language so I open her we get talking and I get the right frame in place with my initial comments she is reacting well but then I cant seem to remember or run any of what I had going. It was a complete in the moment thing no patterns nothing. She starts right on about if I have a girl friend and if not can I tell her about who I last dated etc. We then end up for some reason talking about random stuff like holidays, university etc.

Once again I had no chance do any of what I planned conversation flowed. I came out with her giving me her number, her full name for facebook add and her SPAM details. She invited me to a party at weekend and requested that I send her my number, details etc.

BUT when I do there is no reply on the text, SPAM or facebook complete blanking me out that front. Theres been no contact since.

Questions:

1-How do you solve the problem of having a game plan but not being able to execute as described above? Any feedback on the above?

2- Preventing the flake? Which leads to..

3- Have any of you ever tried sinns flake elimination tool kit? or similar products? do you have effective ways to manage this?

4- do you go to the party? or blow her off?

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Sounds like you put alot of pressure on yourself to follow a step-by-step checklist of things you need to do. As you've noticed, the problem with this is that once you fuck up one thing, everything crumbles as a result. Try natural game if you're struggling with this.

1) Natural game. Be yourself. Act normally. Open random sets with no expectations. Once you become confident in talking to women, THEN you can develop a game plan. You can't just go from AFC to master PUA in a day. It takes alot of work

2) Not sure what you're asking...

3) No.

4) I'd go. Sounds like you weren't too happy with your performance here anyway. Try to redeem yourself. Stay cool and don't go in with any expectations. Even if you don't succeed, this will be valuable practice for you. Trial and error!