Its time to not only get this part of my life handled, but completely master it. I believe that not having 100% confidence around women affects much much more than just my relationships.

Sick and tired of some of my friends thinking they are good with women and shuving it in my face when in reality they are below average at best. Its seriously fuken frustrating. Im sick of people doubting me and thinkng they are better than me when they have nothing else going for them
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I have read a good amount of materials and so has my friend who is going with me. Our plan is to drive about 45 mins away from our town friday nights and just start approaching.

Any tips, words of wisdom, or encouragement are welcomed

Best opener I've ever heard of on here came from some college student...forget his name though...but I'll try my best at explaining it to you.

Sexy Eye Opener

The great thing about this opener is that it's not just an opener...you can use it as mid-game just like all the other successful openers.

You: "You've got the sexiest eyes I've ever seen."
Her: "Thank-you"
You: "Let's play a game, you up for it? If you win I'll buy you a drink."
Her: "Sure" (Or if she isn't sure, insure her that its a simple game, then she'll be down.)
You: "Ok. Lets see how many guys you can attract by just using your eyes to lure them in. If you can get one of their numbers, I'll buy you a drink."
Her: "OH! Ok, sounds like fun."
You: "But here is the rules. You can only use your eyes to attract them. And I can do anything in my power to cause them to not be interested in you, except tell them we're playing a game."
Her: "Ok.."

Then once she starts seeking out guys to attract, don't stop talking to her...just be yourself and try to get her to open up to you a bit until the first victim comes by...then do this....

Guy: "Hey I..." (Cut him off)
You: "What's up bro..." (Give him a bro hug or something that'll get him off balance of the conversation, but make sure you do something physical to get his attention)
You: "How do you know (chicks name)?"
Guy: "Well I don't really..."
You: "Well hey, it doesn't really matter, but I know this girl pretty well, and I can almost bet she's not interested..." (Then gently guide her away from the guy).

Now be warned...she will shit test you during this time of the opener, so be ready to be on your feet with some sort of clever distraction to keep her mind off the prize. This helps you look like an alpha male in front of her. Then once the guy is gone say...

You: "Hey...you'll get it next time, I'll give you an extra chance, and I promise this time I'll make it easier on you."

Then talk for a little bit, then excuse yourself from her, and start talking to another girl in the bar...then eventually she will HUNT YOU DOWN...and do this....

Her: "Who is this?!"
You: "Oh, (chicks name), this is (other chicks name)"
Her: "How do you two know each other?"
Other chick: "Well we just..."
Her: "Doesn't matter, but I can tell you already...he isn't interested."

End of opener...and trust me...if this all goes down smoothly, then her and all her friends will be by your side for the rest of the night. And a number close is almost curtain to happen after this cause you can go on later in the night and say...

You: "So hey...did you ever get a guys number?"
Her: "No"
You: "Well...I don't want you feeling like you weren't able to make a friend tonight, so how about we exchange numbers...blah...blah...blah...yadda..yadda..yadda"

You know how it goes...and eventually you'll get the number...or if you were smart and gamed her while the game was being played...then you can almost bet a kiss close. It's all about how you use your time.

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You all take 'er easy. And if she's easy, take her twice.

For every one hour of material you read/watch/listen to, you should apply 3 in field. You have no idea how much material I have absorbed only to clutter my head! I went to a seminar where there were some big names just recently here in Los Angeles...Brad P, Tyler Durden, Love Drop, DJ Fuji, Vince Kelvin just to name some...actually, that's over half the line up, LOL, anyways...they all said the same thing.

Tyler calls these people, Torrent Babies or Junkies...looking for that next big line or tactic and they keep reading and reading and when they get out, they freeze because they are trying to analyze their next move...RSD says this, But Neil says that and I remember reading this...you get stuck!

Stick with one thing that resonates with you and your style, something that is doable but does get you out of your comfort zone. Get out there and fail...yes...fail.

Listen to me for just a second...as I just had this epiphany about 3 months ago. In Jan, I made it a point to approach 100 girls, my AA was horrible...no matter or how...I would just walk up and say something...Just wanted to say you're cute/adorable/gorgeous or nice smile or whatever...I learned that I can approach, but it didn't lead to much if I can say that and then walk away.

Now...Once I approach, I don't leave...tension...hell yeah...but it gets me talking, I look for commonalties or something that I can build upon...but if I don't stay in, I won't learn...so I do, and I look at their reaction, I try to keep my body language and an occasional smile good and strong. It' times like this that when you stay in set, you begin to learn what is good to ask or talk about...it's no different than anything else, the more practice you have, the more better you will be at it...granted, you do have to put yourself through a lot to get better if you aren't naturally talkative but you can make that change if you try.

There have been many times where I thought...This is something I don't think I can do...but I am and consistency will get you there. Don't give up.

Have you tried looking up wings in your area? You'll be surprised how many would love to help out.

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You can't make the same mistake twice, the second time you make it, it's no longer a mistake, it's a choice.