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PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 12:06 am 
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-Went out last night
-made EC with cute girl on dancefloor
-me and my friend danced wuth her and her friends
-teased her by making her open up then dance with one of her friends
-start dancing with her and say "i think you're kinda cute" because I want to escalate
-she laughs and i say "this is where you tell me i'm cute too"
-she makes a playful "no" signal, gesturing with her hand across her throat
-I pretend to be heartbroken
-we dance again in spurts
-club closes and i talk to her
-not sure how to escalate but I'm touching her and teasing her, then I say "I think i want to kiss you but I'm not sure"
-she just laughs it off
-kept moving in to kiss but she just ignored it
-she was being friendly and i was being very playful/funny
-never got to kiss her, she left to go to burger king

Thoughts
-I shouldn't have told her I thought she was cute. I only said this because I don;t know how to escalate nonverbally on dancefloor because I can't dance.
-When the dancing stopped I should have just led her somewhere, stopped being playful and become more sexual. I had no sexual vibe

Any ideas guys?


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PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 12:28 am 
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u need the vibe for that this is what i did in my first kiss close i asked her what was the most adventouris thing she ever dont i looked at her and kissed her and said wwas that it she said no playfully weird thing i kissed her while her friend was sitting right next to her i screwd up there cause she said her parents texted her and said her parents wanted her back i walked her back and kisset her outside the door i could separate them
the point is the cat string theory you made yourself to easy to achieve


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PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 2:25 am 
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You were too needy, talking too much no challenge... And you do not dance... Plus asking for a kiss, i don't like that...


When i am at club i usually do not talk just dance, then escalate little by little by focusing on the girl, you only have a window of opportunity to kiss them none verbally, i usually do this i say hold on hold on let me fix you, then i fix their her by putting the hair behind the ear in the process touching the ear very very lightly, then i brush their eyebrows with my index finger, if they start moving or giggling i say hold hold, you are not done yet, then i say now you look good, i kiss her on the forehead then on each eye, then on each cheek, then on the chin, if she pull back she is not ready, if she is when i kiss on the chin she will not move, then gently very lightly like a wanna be kiss in the mouth, a lot of teasing...hope it helps!!!!

I know a lot of puas ask for kisses, i think is weak... I just kiss them, is more natural...

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PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 9:32 am 
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isn't "i want to kiss you" and "i really want to kiss you" and "i just really want to kiss you"

akin to ASKING to kiss her?

which is a big no-no?

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 Post subject: Re: What did I do wrong?
PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 11:30 am 
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kept moving in to kiss but she just ignored it
Not a good reason to stop.

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PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 12:08 pm 
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if a girl says no she is saying ''NOT YET''

she didn't kick you in the balls when you asked or tried

she didn't call you a creepy fuck ....

you asked her for it which is a big no no ...

you just sound like she rejected you which wasn't the case .... you should have distraced her with some talking - grabbed her head and bashed your tongue into her mouth.
wtf do you got to lose ? she wants to get kissed , why fucking waste all these hours talking to this girl without kissing her ? whats the point.... ?

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PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 10:50 pm 
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Never ask to kiss. Never. Ever. Never ever ask.

Take her off the dance floor to escalate then! Play the Date/Marry/Fuck game for instance. That's always really fun in night clubs. And that'll get the conversation going in the right direction too.

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PostPosted: Fri May 27, 2011 11:34 pm 
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Ok guys

So what should I have done as soon as i got off the dancefloor?


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