Hey!
I'm a student and in my house there is a Chinese girl. I often meet her at breakfast or dinner in our kitchen and by now I know her for about 9 months. We always had good conversations and I took her to some
parties and introduced her to some of my friends. I also asked her out for dinner and cinema, and we had a very good time but I was too shy to make any serious move, like telling her that I like her or trying to establish any physical contact. I guess this made her conclude that I'm not interested in her as a woman or that I do not have enough courage. Now she is seeing another guy. However, this guy will leave in two weeks and move to another country, so their relationship will probably end then. The last weeks I was pretty pissed off by this
situation and also by myself for not having made a move. My behavior towards her may have reflected that and she might have noticed something, because she also treats me colder than before.
What kind of strategy can I use to make her become interested in me again. Do you see any chances that I might still become her boyfriend after this other guy leaves or should I forget her?

you got stuck in the friend zone it happens to all of us and u cant forget her youll regret it you cant lightly flirt or just be friendly anymore you need to man up and finally do something and if id doesnt work out you whatever atleast you tried you were just going to give up any way u need lay all your cards on the table be assurtuve dont make a move when her boyfriend leaves do it next time you and her are alone screw the other guy go up to her look into her eyes and be a real badass be confindent if she did go on a date with you and u didnt make a move make the move show her that you want her

thanks for the reply! I was actually ready to make a move but then I got to know about the guy she is seeing and I didn't make it. I think just doing something right now would be too agressive, completely shock her and completely destroy mz chances. what I need is some sort of a strategy how I can get her attracted to me, i.e. I need some sort of a "boyfriend destroyer"